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Ever feel like you are doing everything wrong?

C&C6202005C&C6202005 member
in April 2012 Moms

This may turn into a long rant against myself...so sorry in advance!

I feel like I cannot do anything right at the moment.  My house is a disaster.  I feel like I am neglecting DD#1 because I am already super uncomfortable and tired.  I have totally been slacking in my classroom and hate that my students are dealing with the pregnant, hormonal version of myself.  I'm not sure the last time DH and I carried on an actual conversation or spent any time together.  And for some reason I feel like I can't turn to anyone about it because I am supposed to be this happy, loving life pregnant girl (I LOVED being pregnant the first time...the whole 9 months).  My best friend is also pregnant, so I don't want to drag her down into my pity party. 

Thanks for letting me get all that out.   

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Re: Ever feel like you are doing everything wrong?

  • ckk8584ckk8584 member
    I am also feeling a little down on myself...like I haven't exercised enough & made the right food choices during this pregnancy.  I've been so, so busy and stressed out.  I've been working extra odd jobs after work to try & save some $$ before I have to go out on leave so I haven't had a lot of free time to make preparations for baby.  Sometimes I feel really overwhelmed & like a failure.  So, I can def. sympathize with what you're feeling right now.
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  • WildcatPrincessWildcatPrincess member
    I don't know if it's hormones or what, but when I'm pregnant I'm super hard on myself. The first time it was I wasn't eating well enough, cooking enough, doing my job well enough. This time I feel guilty if the house isn't clean with dinner on the table at the end of the night, plus having had a full day for DD. I can't wait to be unpregnant and not caring so much if my house is clean or I ate a lot of junk for a day :P
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