At the risk of possibly posting the dumbest question ever on this board:
How do you know when the baby is ready to wean and how do you go about it? I know it means that he will gradually stop wanting to nurse but how does that happen exactly? Do you then replace that feeding with solids and/or formula?
I've been EBF my LO for 4 months and don't really have any plans to wean right now, I just see it brought up a lot on the board.
TIA!
Re: Dumb question about weaning
A baby won't self wean until he's eating enough solids (and drinking from other sources) to the point that breastmilk is not a primary source of nutrition. Generally, that's after a year and a half and up to about 3 years old. It usually happens gradually - they just nurse less and less often until one day they don't want to any more.
There are strategies to encourage weaning, like "don't offer, don't refuse" where you just don't offer but will nurse if the child wants to. And there are more mom-led weaning strategies where you just refuse to nurse at certain times and drop feeds that way.
If a baby seems to be weaning prior to a year, it's something else going on. Distracted baby, ear infection, etc.
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Babies don't generally wean before 2ish years unless pushed in that direction or if they go on a nursing strike and you "take advantage" of that time to wean. If you want to wean before 12mo you will have to replace the nursing with formula and foods are a bonus for any baby.
For DD1 she was lead by me to nurse morning/evening since I worked, then she started sleeping in the morning through that time so it was evening only after oh, 18mo. One day I didn't come home and then she never asked for "momma milk" again. It was a rather uneventful and smooth 2nd year of breastfeeding for us.