Heyyyy everyone!
My name is SUSAN, but you can call me Sus. I got a positive this morning and am so, so, so excited!!! We haven't been trying that long, but I know Rob is going to be OVER THE MOON when I tell him he's going to be a daddy.
Any cutesy ideas of how to tell him?
Thanks,
SUSAN/Sus
Re: Cute ways to tell DH I'm preg?
This.
MUD
GTFO
This is the TRYING to get pregnant board, not 1st trimester. This question is not appropriate here. I would suggest you make your intro over on 1st tri and move along. You got your BFP, everyone here is still waiting. No one is trying to be "rude," and honestly, no one was rude. Just honest.
BFP #1 on 8/10/11 EDD 4/21/12~ m/c 8/16/11 at 4w6d
BFP #2 on 1/15/12 EDD 9/26/12~ m/c 1/22/12 at 4w4d
BFP #3 on 2/15/12 EDD 10/28/12 BFP Chart
~~Baby MDem Born 11/7/12~~
This probaly isn't a good way to get a positive response.
Def MUD.
Looking to stir up some drama, aren't you??
And there it is.
Just fair warning, its over for you now. I made the HUGE mistake of using this word yesterday!
We aren't bitter. We just arent KTFU. Come up with your own way to tell DH so its special for you two. Everyone here has their own unique plan, I don't want anyone else using mine for sure, and I know that goes for every one else here. Ask 1st tri, they have all already told their DH so you will have better luck over there.
Just throw your pee stick in his lap and say, "Looks like you're gonna be a dad. I'm knocked the fudge up."
Now, go away. Your post is incredibly rude.
My husband and I aren't particularly cutesy, even though we'll both be OVER THE MOON and so, so, so excited (!!!) when I get KTFU. Thus, he'll probably be right by my side when I piddle on the stick and get the positive.
I realize this doesn't help you, so may I suggest any one of the following:
1) put a dinner roll in your oven (the real one, not your ute) and ask him to check on dinner for you. See how long it takes for him to catch on.
2) wrap up your piddle stick like a present. Bonus if you can make a poem to attach in a card.
3) tie a ribbon around your stomach and add a gift tag that says, "To: Daddy, aka Rob."
YWIA!
NoeliaV
This may help.
https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/62255312.aspx
What do you mean by "re"??? I sincerely hope it's not what I think, because if so, I'm about to go cray cray bitter b*tch on your pregnant as*. Seriously.
Married: 6/27/2008
DS: 3/14/2010 Planned, PG first try
M/C 6/2012
DD: 4/22/2013 Planned, UnDx Infertility, PG on our own
BFP: 10/28/2016 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE!
M/C 12/12/2016
BFP: 10/27/2017 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE
EDD: 7/2/2018
Burp
Married: 6/27/2008
DS: 3/14/2010 Planned, PG first try
M/C 6/2012
DD: 4/22/2013 Planned, UnDx Infertility, PG on our own
BFP: 10/28/2016 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE!
M/C 12/12/2016
BFP: 10/27/2017 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE
EDD: 7/2/2018
Falling in Love! November 2014
Baaaahhaaaa I was thinking the same.....lol
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Don't bother coming over to 1st Tri, you won't be welcome over there either.
BAM!
Sorry. Couldn't resist.
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lol this! We'll just have to keep our chins up!!!
Thanks KK. I read this even if OP didn't. Now I have ideas for when I get my BFP!
this.
No prob! I clicked "watch thread" on it that way I have it for that someday BFP event.
No thanks. I'd rather be a bitter, mean woman.
EDD 07/29/2017
Here is something I think would fit just you....
1. Go pee in a cup
2. Go to your unsuspecting DH and throw it in his face
3. say "I'M PREGNANT!"
4. ask him what to do next.
Awesomesauce!!
"A man walking backwards does not see what lies ahead, only what he is leaving behind."
BFP #1-7/22/12 EDD: 4/8/13 It's a Boy!! Born 3/30/13
BFP #2 2/3/14 EDD: 10/15/14 - My Chart
I am completely dishearted by the bitter women on this board replying to the original poster. I can't tell you how many posts I have seen on this site telling women in rude ways to post on a different board. I can certainly understand the difficulty some of you are facing with conception, but why can't women be more supportive of one another, rather than making it a brawl or competition? It's so sad and pathetic, and I hope those aren't the values you plan to share with your future children when you finally do get pregnant. If you are all having such trouble conceiving combined with bitterness, why don't you consider joining Trouble Trying to Conceive or Infertility. This board implies that people are just in the mix of trying, and that includes just receiving the exciting news of success! Why not be happy for her? And if it's not the right place, how about politely suggesting another board without being immature and heartless. Unbelievable!!!
Susannnnn - I wish you all the best with your news. I am fortunate that even after trying for a while and having some fertility issues and other health problems, that I am still genuinely happy for others who conceive and it helps me feel hopeful that it can happen for me someday too! Best wishes to you!! I hope you had a wonderful experience telling your husband!!! Don't give these women a second thought!! Enjoy your moment...and then next 9 months!!
I'm new to this board as well and have been lurking a while. When I read the OP's first message, my initial thought was, "Oh, this will be fun to see all the responses- good ideas for the future." --not "Dang, why is she posting here?!"
Then again I AM new, but I still didn't catch the impression that she was rubbing anything in, just excited.
Idk.