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Hard day - new daycare

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We finally found Liam a new home care and he started today. The lady is really sweet and has been texting me, but Liam hasn't eaten or slept today. I knew it would be an adjustment for him, but it's so hard knowing he's so upset and doesn't know where he is. ugh :(

Has anyone else had to switch childcare? Did it take your LO long to adjust?

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  • bugandbibsbugandbibs member
    I'm sorry things are hard. I don't have any advice, but hang in there!
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  • TwirpleTwirple member
    We had to switch child care when Chase was 4 months old.  It did take him time to adjust.  He really didn't nap for the first couple of days, but now he LOVES it there.  It just takes time.  It's great that you found a provider who will keep in touch with you throughout the day.
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  • lylahlovelylahlove member

    Thanks, mamas. When I picked him up, tears were streaming down his face. I felt like the worst mom in the world. I know he just has to adjust. I told my h that I'll give it til the end of the week and then I'm quitting my job ;) only somewhat kidding.  

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  • vilarovilaro member
    imagelylahlove:

    Thanks, mamas. When I picked him up, tears were streaming down his face. I felt like the worst mom in the world. I know he just has to adjust. I told my h that I'll give it til the end of the week and then I'm quitting my job ;) only somewhat kidding.  

    Oh, hon. I'm sorry to hear that. It must have been so hard for you to see that. Hang in there, mama. I'm sure it will get easier for him everyday this week.

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  • KmhsswimKmhsswim member
    It will get better!  He's just older and more aware now, so it's a tough time for the transition, but it doesn't mean he won't love it there.  Hang in there.  It will get better quickly and it sounds like the new provider really wants to keep you informed which is a great thing. 
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  • malloryjeanmalloryjean
    I think a lot of it has to do with his developmental stage - stranger anxiety is setting in (my baby FREAKED for his 9 mo dr visit and has never done that before).  He will certainly get used to his new caregiver.  Is it possible for you to take an hour of personal time to spend there to maybe make him feel more comfortable?  Not sure if that would just make it harder but I read that spending more time around these initial 'strangers' might make baby feel more comfortable.
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  • kje120kje120 member
    Awwww - I'm so sorry he had a bad day. I'm sure it's just that he's more aware now and that after a week he will be all settled in and love it. Hang in there mama!
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  • Kimberly92405Kimberly92405
    No advice, just wanted to say I'm sorry it was such a tough day.  Hugs!
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  • lylahlovelylahlove member

    thanks for all the kind words!

    eta - Will stayed 30 minutes this morning with him and he seemed to be doing better. The sitter has been texting pics and updates so that's really encouraging. fingers crossed for no tears this afternoon. 

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  • GHBEAGHBEA member

    HUGS sorry you both have to go through this.  Each day will get better.

    If any one ever has to start or switch DC providers always visit the place everyday even if it is 20 mins or an hour, this helps LO get acquainted with some one new while you are there and the surroundings wont be so strange on the first big day.  The DC I worked at encouraged this to new families.

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  • nettie27nettie27
    No advice, but I'm so sorry to hear he is feeling uncomfortable.  No doubt it will get better for him!  If not, you can always quit!  I tell my inlaws every time they watch my girls, that i wish i had their job.
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