Haven't been home in over two weeks.

Re: Haven't been home in over two weeks.

• warriormomerin

  January 2012

  Have you tried to get a temporary protection order? He sounds pretty unstable.

  BTW, your daughter is adorable!
  

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• KtGirl88

  January 2012

  Thank you! No I haven't because unfortunately I have no proof of his drug use and him and his family are so good at lying they would make it seem like I have no reason to be nervous/scared. The night I caught him I should have called the cops but I didn't and now Im sure he has everything so well hidden I will never be able to get proof. /

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• DHYGchica3

  January 2012

  Ugh, ditto. I think STBXH is being advised (possibly by his therapist) to stop texting me. I tried texting him to get details about his therapy session today and he called me instead. *damnittohell*

   
  

   

  

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• Crystal318 member

  January 2012

  KtGirl88:

  Thank you! No I haven't because unfortunately I have no proof of his drug use and him and his family are so good at lying they would make it seem like I have no reason to be nervous/scared. The night I caught him I should have called the cops but I didn't and now Im sure he has everything so well hidden I will never be able to get proof. /

  I dont know if it varies state to state but I believe you would be granted a TPO. Get a copy of the police report and go to the courthouse. You can prove that he is unpredictable when on drugs - you have the report. Obviouslly you are scared if you had to get your locks changed, an alarm system installed and you have been staying somewhere else (I did all of this too and was granted a TPO). These judges know how irrational drug addicts can be. It cannot hurt to try and its free. The temporary order may only last a few weeks....but at least it is buying you some time. I didnt think a piece of paper would ever make me feel so good. But it did.

  Good Luck.

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• sweetie0228 member

  January 2012

  When he calls, after you hang up email a "summary of the conversation" to him and CC yourself and your lawyer.

  Something like:

  As per our phone conversation on 1/24/12 at 3:15pm we decided you would not be picking up darling child because you informed me you would be unavailable.  I offered an alternate time but you declined stating you needed to check your calendar.

  I just wanted to make sure we are on the same page.  Email me back if you have a different perception of our phone conversation.

  Signed,

  Completely secure and in control mother of our child.

  

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• mdotm0904 member

  January 2012

  sweetie0228:

  When he calls, after you hang up email a "summary of the conversation" to him and CC yourself and your lawyer.

  Something like:

  As per our phone conversation on 1/24/12 at 3:15pm we decided you would not be picking up darling child because you informed me you would be unavailable.  I offered an alternate time but you declined stating you needed to check your calendar.

  I just wanted to make sure we are on the same page.  Email me back if you have a different perception of our phone conversation.

  Signed,

  Completely secure and in control mother of our child.

  you're so awesome sweetie.

  

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• DHYGchica3

  January 2012

  sweetie0228:

  When he calls, after you hang up email a "summary of the conversation" to him and CC yourself and your lawyer.

  Something like:

  As per our phone conversation on 1/24/12 at 3:15pm we decided you would not be picking up darling child because you informed me you would be unavailable.  I offered an alternate time but you declined stating you needed to check your calendar.

  I just wanted to make sure we are on the same page.  Email me back if you have a different perception of our phone conversation.

  Signed,

  Completely secure and in control mother of our child.

  Love love love this. I will start doing this.
  

  

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• KtGirl88

  January 2012

  DHYGchica3:

  sweetie0228:

  When he calls, after you hang up email a "summary of the conversation" to him and CC yourself and your lawyer.

  Something like:

  As per our phone conversation on 1/24/12 at 3:15pm we decided you would not be picking up darling child because you informed me you would be unavailable.  I offered an alternate time but you declined stating you needed to check your calendar.

  I just wanted to make sure we are on the same page.  Email me back if you have a different perception of our phone conversation.

  Signed,

  Completely secure and in control mother of our child.

  Love love love this. I will start doing this.
  

   

  Perfect. I especially love the ending ;o) 

   

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