Success after IF

Ladies, I have a stalker.

My ex- boyfriend from high school's wife. This was about a month or so ago but i have been so busy I haven't had a chance to post. She sends me a FB message asking me where I went to get pregnant. Um, what? First off all how would she know and second of all don't send me a message trying to be a concerned b!tch. So, I wrote back saying IDK where you got your info from but my DH got me pregnant because clearly it is none of her business!!!!!! So, she writes back telling me I am confused and that she means for fertility treatments etc. and said she knew back in February but didn't say anything because she assumed no one knew yet. Caught ya! The only people who knew then was you ladies. I never even told our parents until March and no one knew we had IUI for DS #2... so how could she know?? 

A nest lady had written something on my wall once and she must have come over to the nest and stalked me out. I know this is a public message board but I feel so violated and for her to bring it up to me is so wrong  on so many levels. I can't even describe how I feel and no she does no have fertility issues. AND in the message she kinda rubbed it in that she has never had any problems so she doesn't know what to tell her friend. Anyways, SHould I delete her from FB??? I have no clue why we are even friends. When I was pregnant with DS #1 she friended me saying she wanted to "follow my pregnancy". 

 p.s. our past is horrible. When I was dating my DH and she was dating my ex she would send me message telling me I'm fat etc. I think she was just jealous that my family and my ex's family were still very close.  

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Re: Ladies, I have a stalker.

  • Ummmm, why in the world would you ask? Delete her and move on!
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  • Delete, delete, delete!!

     

  • imageRoxBride:
    Ummmm, why in the world would you ask? Delete her and move on!

     

    This pretty much.  Strange, yeah.  Interesting story, yeah.  But sounds like no brainer.  De-friend. 

  • WHOA. that's incredibly creepy. If it were me, I'd cut her out of my life and be very careful. These kinds of situations can get very scary.
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  • Why wouldn't you delete her?  I would in a heartbeat.  

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  • unfriend her and change your screen name!
  • imageMouseygail:
    unfriend her and change your screen name!

    This and how creapy! 

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  • Delete!  Why were you ever FB friends with her in the first place.  If you think there will be complications with deleting her, just severely restrict her access to you.
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  • Why'd you friend her in the first place? No brained - bye, see ya!
    A lot of years and a million tears finally led me to you.
    After 7 years trying to concieve, 3 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs, my third IVF was a success!
    My Christmas baby turned into a turkey bird! Dillon Richard was born at 34 weeks, 5 days on November 28, 2009 after 10 weeks on bedrest for preeclampsia.
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  • imagekrissyh21:
    Why'd you friend her in the first place? No brained - bye, see ya!

    This AND change your screen name!

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  • I have NO clue why I didn't sooner! Just blocked but wish I had when she sent me that message. Thanks for the push ladies... I guess what held me back before was that we have a lot of "mutual" FB friends. When I read i back though seems like no brainer. Part of me can't even believe she pulled this knowing my DH is deployed and I clearly have a lot on my plate being a single mother right now. I guess she likes to kick someone when they are already down.
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  • I would just delete her completely and not worry about it.  why are you even friends with her?  Why do you even need ties to these people.

    on the other hand.  I remember when my sil got pregnant she was on the knot.  I knew her screen name but all of a sudden I am on the babies on the brain board (that was the board before there was a bump) and she asks about a positive HPT.  I almost passed out.  She didn't tell us for weeks and weeks.  I told my husband but that was it.  I felt terrible that I knew about it but I kept my mouth shut.

    DD (8/12/09), DD (2/8/11)
    BFP 12/16/14| EDD 8/19/15 |MMC 1/15/15 (9 weeks 1 day)
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