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haleyw458
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Who's ready for some drama?
haleyw458
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Ex's psycho baby momma went and got a boob job, while on every type of state assistance.
Ex moved in with her, and started hanging out with his other kid two weeks ago.
Apparently they have been messing around for the past month, and that entire time ex still had nothing to do with this other kid. What is wrong with both of them? And you know what she told her (now) ex best friends? If she were to get pregnant again then she would make him choose to be in their kids' lives or not at all. Seriously, why would she wait until she had another kid with him to make him choose? If he doesn't want anything to do with one kid, he wouldn't want anything to do with 2! Does she have no pride?
So my dilemma now? I have a restraining order against this girl, and ex expected to take DS over to her house and stay the night with them last night. Where does he expect him to sleep? In the bed that him and this girl share?
She has parties at her house EVERY Friday and Saturday night, with her kid there sometimes. The rest of the time her boss watches him every weekend ALL weekend so she can go out to party.
Is it crazy for me to not be okay with DS being around this girl or not going over to that house? They aren't even dating. According to her ex best friends, he's made it very clear to her that they aren't and never will be.
Sorry if this is all over the place. I'm cooking dinner as I type this and am just furious I'm just kind of venting.
ETA: I wouldn't let ex take DS yesterday when he wanted to, and now he said he was going to take me to court for visitation so I would HAVE to let him take DS wherever he wanted. Will my restraining order against her even matter when it comes to DS going over there?
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Re: Who's ready for some drama?
I had to pick my jaw up off the floor on this one. Both of them - seriously?! I feel zero sympathy for your BD, what an idiot! This girl is obviously unstable, yet that need for booty is just more than he can handle apparently. And he's still not acknowledging (sp?) his other son. Sorry, what a slimeball. I'm worried for your DS that BD is his example of what a man should be. You're close with your fam, though, right, so he has your dad ... I hope.
What a silly girl, still thinking she's going to get him. Ugh, ugh, this makes me go ugh all the way around. Poor Drake stuck in the middle of it all, too =0( I want to smack your BD worse than my own!
Wow, what a pig. He won't be involved with his son because the mom is a psycho, yet he will go back and spend time with her?! That doesn't even make a little bit of sense. I still feel sad for that little baby who will only know two douchebags for parents.
And I think unless the restraining order says she can't be around Drake then he would be allowed to take him around her.
I think that since you've already denied the visitation you should be ready to back up - with solid evidence - of why it was in DS best interest to not go with ex for his visitation time.
I have done this. exH is all kinds of bad for DS and I have denied him visitation twice now. The first time he got all b!tchy at me and called the police who in turn called me. In my state, it's no biggie...they basically said "good luck figuring it out. Have a good day" to me.
If xh was going to really do something about it he is going to have to take me to court which he will never do (I guess never say never, but still...highly unlikely) because he is going to look worse and I am very sure of my choice to say no to him. Plus also, I am/was going on the advice of my attny. and paperwork to make the no visitation official until some things change are in the works.
So yah. Basically if he is actually going to take you to court for contempt then I guess be ready to validate your decision to not allow the visitation.
GL! And sorry that your DS has to witness that craptastic situation!