I understand that there are different comfort levels with spending, gifts,baby showers etc. I am planning on purchasing my nursery furniture secondary to higher costs. If I am lucky enough to be gifted these items, well, of course I will welcome it! So, I am wondering what items did you ultimately end up having to purchase on your own, things you needed either before or shortly after the baby comes?
I know this will vary from person to person, but I am trying to plan everything in my mind and I am having a hard time holding back from buying things, especially when I see a good deal online! Sigh.
Re: Registry- Which baby items did you ultimately have to purchase?
I bought myself the Ergo because I saw it on Babysteals, and we bought our own nursery furniture.
My MIL bought us the infant car seat and bases and stroller, but I have a huge chunk of a kid who really hated the infant seat, so bought a convertible seat for him when he was just a few months old. I bought my own diaper bag b/c I wanted something specific that was costly (although, I regret it, don't use it, and am thinking about CLing it =/).
Oh, and because he was long and skinny, he fit into newborn stuff, but nothing with feet...so we ended up having to go on a very specific clothing search for a few things for him when he was less than a week old. But that's not something you can really plan for, ha. I do think though that I didn't have enough (and didn't think I needed) newborn sized clothing. He definitely needed size NB for the first two weeks or so. 0-3 months was big on him and he was almost 8 lb at birth.
I also bought all my own pumping and BFing stuff and nursing tanks, bras, etc.
I'm sure there's more, but that's all I can think of right now. GL!
DD2: February 2014
We were gifted our co-sleeper (from the registry), crib (not on our registry), stroller, a used pump, and later on a jumperoo and awesome bouncy seat. We kept our registry sort of light, knowing that people would buy what they liked and we'd likely buy all the key stuff ourselves.
I bought DS's infant seat myself when I found the one I wanted on sale. Same with his bedding (which he never used!). We got a bunch of our registry stuff but also dupes of stuff on our registry that I was able to return for other stuff.
I got a TON of bath stuff (toiletry sets I didn't want to use, a million wash cloths, two tubs, toys, etc) but not very many clothes. I had 6 bath towels but no swaddling blankets.
It all worked out because I exchanged the dupes for stuff I liked anyway but it still sort of makes me laugh. Two relatives who are sort of competitive both bought us baby tubs and filled them to the brim with bath stuff, trying to out do the other I think.
crib/crib mattress and changing table were the big ones we had to buy but we got the crib/changing table cheap on craigslist.
We were gifted our co-sleeper (from the registry), crib (not on our registry), stroller, a used pump, and later on a jumperoo and awesome bouncy seat. We kept our registry sort of light, knowing that people would buy what they liked and we'd likely buy all the key stuff ourselves.
I bought DS's infant seat myself when I found the one I wanted on sale. Same with his bedding (which he never used!). We got a bunch of our registry stuff but also dupes of stuff on our registry that I was able to return for other stuff.
I got a TON of bath stuff (toiletry sets I didn't want to use, a million wash cloths, two tubs, toys, etc) but not very many clothes. I had 6 bath towels but no swaddling blankets.
It all worked out because I exchanged the dupes for stuff I liked anyway but it still sort of makes me laugh. Two relatives who are sort of competitive both bought us baby tubs and filled them to the brim with bath stuff, trying to out do the other I think.
Make sure you still put all this stuff on the registry b/c you usually get a completion coupon.
I can't remember what was bought for us/ we bought though. I have terrible memory for that stuff.