TTC after 35

S/O - giving up stuff - what do you miss?

Speaking of giving up stuff, what do you truly miss and can't wait to get back?  We've all been at this for a while and I was thinking about what I miss the other day.  

Hope everyone has a happy Monday and a great week! 

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Re: S/O - giving up stuff - what do you miss?

  • I really miss my Revitalash.  I have stubby, straight eyelashes naturally.  When I use Revitalash, my lashes are curly, long, and thick.  People would ask me if they were fake.  Sigh ... Silly vanity...

    I thought I'd miss my migraine blockers more but it turns out that I forgot that the side effects from that meds were significant (like food tasting bitter and numb fingers) and I'm better off without them.  

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  • I miss everything! I hate that I have to agonize over every single thing I eat and do. TTC has taken the joy out of so many things that I enjoy - alcohol, exercise, caffeine, and sex, to name a few. I really want to get up in the morning, drink 2 cups of coffee, go for a long run, eat bread and pasta, and enjoy a glass of wine without wondering if these things are causing or affecting my IF. Oh, and I want to have purposeless sex! 

    In a really warped way, I am envious of my friend who has moved on to adoption because at least she gets her body back! Truly not making light of this, because I cried with her often and I saw the agony they experienced, but I know that being able to eat, drink and exercise freely was a real silver lining for her. 

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  • I miss being able to run like I used to.  I am a long distance runner (was doing 8-10 miles on Saturday mornings), but I've cut my running way back since I've heard it can affect my hormone levels to exercise that much (I have a feeling my RE will tell me to cut back anyway).  I wanted to train for a half marathon last fall but silly me thought I'd be pregnant again by then so I didn't sign up for a race.

    Not drinking during the 2ww (my own choice).  I gave up coffee (and switched to decaf green tea).  And I miss not having to put my life on hold (planning vacations, trips, etc.).

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    BFP#2 11/2011, CP
    FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2
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    Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155
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  • Allergy pills, more than anything else.  I miss popping a Zyrtec D and getting on with my day without being stuffy and snotty and avoiding the sinus headaches I inevitably get.  I also miss Dr. Pepper, but I figure it is easier to give up caffeine now than to stress out about whether it's going to affect the pregnancy (if and when that actually happens). 
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  • Coffee, no question.

    I have a home-based business, and my coffee intake during the day was pretty huge. We have a Keurig (totally my enabler), and I'd have 4-5 10-oz cups, daily.

    It took awhile, but gradually weaned myself down to one 6-oz per day, and wow, do I cherish that one teeny little cup. 

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  • That's astoundingly impressive.  I feel like there should be medals for this.
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  • Hardcore narcotics, swilling vodka and wild sex with strangers!

    OK, I'm kidding. I just miss McDonalds

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  • MelleTX, 

    Lol. That's just awesome. 

    I miss caffeine and the occasional glass of red wine at networking events. And I miss being able to lift and move things without DW hovering and offering to do it for me. :P

    Side question: How does one make a signature? 

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  • Coffee was the first thing I went for in my necessary TTC break. 

    What I miss most now is exercise and sex. 2 long months.

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