March 2011 Moms

Stupid thought on womanly

I dont know why, but I dont feel very womanly lately. I dont know if its just all the winter grey-ness getting to me. Or if its that DH and I never seem to connect anymore unless its all about the kids. I love my girls! Dont get me wrong, but I just feel I have lost myself, in being a mom, and taking care of the house, and cooking and dogs, and all this stress where we will be having to move by September. 

Is anyone else feeling a little like they have lost themselves in motherhood. Mind you I havent felt this way till recently, and I have a 3 yr old too. But it just seems I never dress up, I rarely wear makeup or even do my hair more then a ponytail. I even looked at my wardrobe and I have 3 pair of jeans (one of which is my maternity) and tee shirts, I dont have any clothes to dress up in, or anything, mostly yoga clothes and sweats. Im just not sure if I want to lose all of my desire to dress up and go out and have fun.  

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Re: Stupid thought on womanly

  • Yeah I have felt that way lately too.  I haven't bothered doing my hair or makeup in months, we don't go out hardly ever anymore, and I literally wear sweats or PJs all weekend.  I will blame the weather though.  In MD we had a lot of beautiful spring like days in January and it gave me early spring fever.  Now I am ready for winter to be over.  I am going to have my hair done in 2 weeks and I feel that that might help bring me out of my funk a little.  Don't worry...you are not the only one :)

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