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3rd Trimester
Am I being rational????
This lady I know was pregnant with her first child. And everyday she would drink a beer or even some liquor. And she continued to smoke cigeretts. Her baby now is three months old, an now is hooked up to a heart monitor. She keep making excuses of why but I still feel like its from all the drinking an smoking. What type of mother/woman will do that to her unborn child. Of course, some can call me many things but I do care about the life of my child enough to not drink nor smoke while Im pregnant. I am so pissed at her because the child has this medical problem because she couldn't wait 9 months to endulge in her festivities. Am I wrong to be angry enough at her that I put her out my house. The baby look so small an unhealthy. Did I over react?
Pissed off Mother!!!!!!!
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Re: Am I being rational????
Then she was looking for sympathy I just couldn't give it to her.
Wow! It's sad knowing that there are seriously selfish people out there who put their own wants before the health of the baby. Not only do I think you're very much deserved in your anger, but I'd take it a step further and turn her into CPS! That's a case of abuse!
This not bs, I am not looking for attention at the misfortuanate of someone else. This is the truth, if you feel like thst ignore what I am saying is it that hard. Not in the mood tonight for no bs, thanks!!!!
Yeah seriously. I agree, that's really messed up. Apparently she's an unfit mother if she can't hold off the frickin booze and cancer sticks for AT LEAST 9 months. That is a dead give away she's too damn selfish to raise a child.
I don't understand how someone can do that to their baby. My mom smoked the whole time she was pregnant with me and I question that is why I have such bad allergies and have had other health problems my whole life. It makes me really disappointed in my mom that she couldn't stop for me. I would do anything for my unborn baby but maybe I just don't understand the addiction.
I see why you would be uncomfortable having someone living in your house that made those decisions knowing very well what all of them could do to their baby.I wouldn't her living with me either!