Hugs needed please

buckeyebaby814 · January 2012

I am just feeling so overwhelmed lately! I should be starting cycle 18 any day now and if I start any earlier than Thursday there's a good chance I won't be able to get in a baseline monitoring appointment for clomid, which means the possibility of another TTA cycle since clomid is the only thing that gets my LP past 9 days.

My cousin, whose GF just had a baby this fall (unmarried @ 19 & 20 y/o, no place to live), was soliciting for babysitters (on FB) to go with them to Applebee's so they could get drunk and then have a safe ride home.

Baby shower @ work this week for a long term sub that's here for someone else's mat leave.

Final stab to the heart, a big long post by a family member talking about all the babys on my ILs side. I know they're excited and I am too, but did they all forget that I should have been due in a month?

It seems like this grief/ sadness comes and goes in cycles. A few weeks ago I felt so hopeful after my last RE appointment. Where did that go?

Thank you all for the support and love you've offered so far- I love you ladies!

MandaS08 · January 2012

Huge hugs! I'm sorry you're having such a hard time. It does seem like when it rains it pours!

I hope things turn around for you soon! Until then we're here to vent to!

hungryhippo · January 2012

((huge hugs)) Sometimes it seems to even harder than normal. I hope all of this eases up on you soon.

millejj1 · January 2012

Huge hugs honey. I'm sorry things are overwhelming to you right now.

Right Hug

yuengling58 · January 2012

Huge hugs! It definitely comes in waves.

ala_1220 · January 2012

Huge Hugs!!! I'm sorry you are at a low right now. I'm crossing everything I have that you can do a Clomid cycle and it's just what you need!!!

buckeyebaby814 · January 2012

Thank you all- you're the best! Smile

ktsnshn · January 2012

Huge hugs coming your way. It does seem to come in waves. I hope things work out for your cycle and that you don't have to TTA another cycle.

CashewsMommy · January 2012

{{{hugs}}} hun!!!

Why do all of these things seem to happen at the same time. I'm wishing you lots of strength this week, as well as "stay away a few more days AF dust".

cmumama · January 2012

sending ((huge hugs!)) your way!

Carolee · January 2012

Lots of (((HUGS))). I'm sorry you're having a rough time right now. I agree with you - it does seem like the grief and sadness come and go in cycles for me also. It can be really hard to deal with at times. Thinking lots of good thoughts for you that you'll be able to start your next clomid cycle as planned.

cutebride73 · January 2012

((((hugs)))) I know that is always the way it is - it just hits you all at once and you feel so overwhelmed. It's just so, so hard sometimes.

I really hope that your cycle works out and you don't have to TTA.

vanessa lynne · January 2012

butterfly843 · January 2012

Sending lots of hugs your way. Hope af waits a few days to arrive so you don't have to tta another cycle.

bluebonnetmeg · January 2012

Giant, squishy ((hugs))! When it rains it pours, right? I hope your cycle lines up the right way. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

buckeyebaby814 · January 2012

vinceandang:
((((((HUGE SQUISHY HUGS)))))) IF Sucks. Hang in there. I hope AF shows soon so you don't have to TTA another cycle. Can you hide your cousin's GF on FB? I hid every pregnant person I know. Makes it easier. I feel like there are a few less landmines on there. ((((HUGS))))

Thank you Smile

I actually don't know how to hide people anymore. When I hover over the right side of their posts I only see things to 'unsubscribe' from users... I understood this as deleting them, so I never press it. How do I do it?

ObviousAEisObvious · January 2012

(((HUGS)))

I hope things look up soon.

ETA:

WHAT?! AE's can give support too!

?

amandachs · January 2012

Many many many (((((Hugs)))))

buckeyebaby814 · January 2012

ObviousAEisObvious:
(((HUGS)))
I hope things look up soon.

ETA:
WHAT?! AE's can give support too!
?

Ha! Thanks ObviousAEisObvious! You really ARE the best AE! Wink

delino · January 2012

I am so sorry BEB. Sending you some ((huge hugs)). You will find your hopefulness again. This journey is such a rollercoaster of emotions. I hope and pray there is a rainbow waiting at the end for all of us.

jenn0021 · January 2012

Sending you giant ((Hugs)). It does come in cycles and you have every reason to feel overwhelmed. We are here for you.

Cissi64 · January 2012

vanessa lynne:

I'm "borrowing" Vanessa's hug heart because it is so perfect! I 've been where you are and it makes no sense why things happen the way they do. I hope things get better soon!

LSzwaya · January 2012

I am sorry. All of that sounds like too much for one person. Sending you a big big hug! FX'd AF stays away for a few more days.

mork · January 2012

*LATE BUT HUGE HUGS*

I'm sorry you're in the middle of a crappy wave beb. *MORE HUGS*

RizzaTs · January 2012

Big ((((hugs)))).

My sadness comes in cycles, too. This will pass and there will be brighter days ahead, I promise!!

lavril · January 2012

Big squishy (((HUGS)))

Laurakat81 · January 2012

(((hugs)))) I'm sorry. That really is a lot to deal with.

VikingQueen · January 2012

((huge hugs)) I am so sorry your having a rough time right now

sweepie412 · January 2012

I am so sorry you are feeling down BEB. I think about you often ((huge hugs)). You will get pregnant again, have hope. Tons of T&Ps to you.

Rawr08 · January 2012

I'm sorry you are feeling like this hun! I hope you start to feel better!

kate6267 · January 2012

((HUGS)) I will be thinkking about you!

AustinBride06 · January 2012

Wanted to offer virtual hugs as well! These times where it seems like life is adding insult to injury are so hard to get through and not many others understand.

Hugs needed please

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