Hi there, my DH and I are looking into adoption for our next child but we are trying to figure out if it is affordable for us. Can you help by providing how much if realistically cost you during the adoption process and also if you had help affording it (grants/loans/mortgages/etc). also how you went about your adoption process (through an agency, foster to adoption, etc).
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Re: Cost of adopting
$34K
We sold a rental property
We used an agency for a domestic infant adoption
We're tossing around the idea of #2. We plan to use an agency again (most likely, though that may change). We're currently planning to use the $ from DH's (generous) company adoption reimbursement program to afford it.
after several m/c, DD#1 born 7-7-08, more m/c and failed IVF, started adoption process March 2011, matched Oct 2, 2012, DD#2 born 10-31-12
Hope Wait Pray Adoption Blog
Agency application fee, profile, homestudy, agency fee, legal fees, and birthmother expenses= $30,800
MH owns a business, we took a draw from the company operating account. It will take us about 6 months to recover and get the operating account back to the level we like it to be.
b2b Injectable IUI #1 7/25/10 & 7/26/10 = BFP beta 14dpIUI = 133 MC 9/14 at 9 weeks
b2b Injectable IUI #2 12/5/10 & 12/6/10 = BFN
IVF #1 ER 3/28/11 ET 3 embryos 3/31/11= BFN
b2b Injectable IUI#3 6/28/11 & 6/29/11 = BFN
PAIF/SAIF Welcome
Submitted Adoption Application on 6/1/2011
Homestudy 7/19/2011
IVF#2 CX due to Adoption Match
We were blessed with our daughter through the gift of adoption
IVF #2.1 ET 2 embryos 2/14/13 7 frosties
We haven't completed the adoption process yet, but we're doing domestic infant adoption with a national agency. The cost is expected to be about $25K. We just bought our house so we don't have any equity that we can take, but we've been saving all our pennies and have about 2/3 of it. We have to pay $18K up front and then the remainder at placement. We're not sure where that money is going to come from, but we're just putting our faith out there that we'll be able to do it. (We'll borrow from credit cards if we need to, but I hope we don't!)
Good luck!