Another pg email from a friend. really?

Re: Another pg email from a friend. really?

• brooklynesque member

  January 2012

  Ugh.  Sorry -- that's really annoying.  Here: 

  [Or maybe that reflects my mood today more than yours!]
  

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• genmalone member

  January 2012

  So sorry girl.  ((hugs))

  
  After more than 2 years of fertility treatments, FET did the trick!
  IVF March 2012 - BFP! - Severe OHSS = 8 days in the hospital in kidney failure
  No heartbeat at 10w6d
  FET August 27,2012 = BFP!
  It's a boy!
  My Blog - 3 Dogs, No Baby
  
  
  

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• mtlaurel

  January 2012

  

  TTC #1 since June 2010
  Me: 36, DH: 42
  Dx: DOR and MFI
  
  DH: low count + very low motility; hormones all normal; Sperm DNA Frag. test = poor to fair; male karyotyping normal
  Me: FSH 13.4 + AMH 0.26 + hypothyroidism; Scratch the hypothyrodism (?); Blood clotting and immune panel all negative; endometrial biopsy normal
  
  IVF #1 (MDLF - Jul/Aug 2011): BFN (9R, 5M, 3F with ICSI, 3dt of 1 10-cell grade 2, no frosties)
  IVF #2 (EP-antagonist - Sep/Oct 2011): BFN (6R, 4M, 3F w/ ICSI, 3dt of 1 6-cell, 1 7-cell, grade 4s, no frosties)
  DE IVF #1 (shared cycle - June 2012): c/p (6R, 6F w/ICSI, 3dt 1 8-cell grade A- and 1 7-cell grade A-; no frosties)
  DE IVF #2 (shared cycle with new donor - Nov/Dec/ 2012): - BFP!!!!! 12/14/12. U/S on 12/27 shows twins!!!!!
  
  SAIFW/PAIFW
  

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• winidpu

  January 2012

  So sorry. I guess she's okay with raising a child with a douche...what does that make her. An idiot!

  TTC #1 since 2/10 Me 38 FSH 12.9 & AMH 0.16 DH 47, low sperm count due to meds. 07/11 We have sperm! 28 million, 70% motility, morphology 1% normal. 08/14/11 1st IUI unmedicated BFN. 09/11/11 2nd IUI w/ Femara + trigger BFN 10/14/11 trigger & Final IUI 10/16/11 BFN 10/21/11 Started acupuncture and loving it! 01/21 ET one embryo 6 cell grade C. Beta 02/02. BFN. Taking a much needed break.

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• MelleTX member

  January 2012

  Ugh! I have two friends that got married just because of their age and desire to have kids. I feel like I am being penalized for NOT settling for whoever happened to be calling at the time my biological alarm clock went on hyper-drive.

  Hang in there and remember your secret weapon this month - your right ovary! 

  Single Mother by Choice. Life didn't work out the way I planned so I did it on my own. IUI #s 1-3, unmedicated = BFN, IUI #s 4-6, 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel = BFN IVF #1: 23R, 20M, 17F. 5 day transfer 2 blasts. 2 Snowbabies BFP 6dp5dt, Beta #1 7dp5dt = 58, Beta #2 9dp5dt = 114, Beta #3 10dp5dt = 187 1st Ultrasound = 5/3, not much to see yet. 2nd Ultrasound = 5/17, TWINS!!! Hospital Bed Rest at 32 weeks due to pre-ecclampsia and severe edema. Audrey Grace, 5lbs9oz, & Lydia Louise, 6lbs, born via emergency c-section on 12/6/12 at 36w1d My IVF Journey

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• Llamamama member

  January 2012

  Mrs.McIrish:

  For the 2nd week in a row, I got the "I don't know how to tell you this but I am pg" email from another friend who just got married in May and due in May..  WTF? Two weeks in a row? I don't even know how to respond to her.  I guess I will just take comfort in the fact that her DH is a total douche canoe and she only married him because she wanted to have kids and is 38.

  Ugh I am so sorry--emails like that are total crap-- but I have to admit reading the D.C comment made me laugh..a lot.  
  

  Me: 40 Dh: 41, TTC since August 2009, began Acupuncture and Herbs Sept 2011, began Temping and Charting Nov 2011.

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• Mrs.McIrish member

  January 2012

  MelleTX:

  Ugh! I have two friends that got married just because of their age and desire to have kids. I feel like I am being penalized for NOT settling for whoever happened to be calling at the time my biological alarm clock went on hyper-drive.

  Hang in there and remember your secret weapon this month - your right ovary! 

  Nope honey, you are doing it YOUR way and without complicating life and childrearing with someone you don't want to be with. Much better for you and "child to be" than settling and being miserable with a douche canoe!

  TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
  DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
  5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
  OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
  DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
  DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
  CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
  DE IVF #3 1/14  ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d

  DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
  First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
  
  K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days
  

  
  

  SAIF/PAIF Welcome

  
  

  http://waitingforraintostop.wordpress.com

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• abvernon

  January 2012

  winidpu:

  So sorry. I guess she's okay with raising a child with a douche...what does that make her. An idiot!

  Agreed.
  

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• MelleTX member

  January 2012

  abvernon:

  winidpu:

  So sorry. I guess she's okay with raising a child with a douche...what does that make her. An idiot!

  Agreed.
  

  I am sure he will make an excellent "first husband". Seriously what one of my friends said about her recent marriage. And not in that joking way either.

   

  Single Mother by Choice. Life didn't work out the way I planned so I did it on my own. IUI #s 1-3, unmedicated = BFN, IUI #s 4-6, 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel = BFN IVF #1: 23R, 20M, 17F. 5 day transfer 2 blasts. 2 Snowbabies BFP 6dp5dt, Beta #1 7dp5dt = 58, Beta #2 9dp5dt = 114, Beta #3 10dp5dt = 187 1st Ultrasound = 5/3, not much to see yet. 2nd Ultrasound = 5/17, TWINS!!! Hospital Bed Rest at 32 weeks due to pre-ecclampsia and severe edema. Audrey Grace, 5lbs9oz, & Lydia Louise, 6lbs, born via emergency c-section on 12/6/12 at 36w1d My IVF Journey

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• pillowass member

  January 2012

  Those emails are the worst! Having to reply to something like that is exhausting and soul-crushing. I'm so sorry.
  

  
  

  
  

  
  TTC #2 since July 2010

  FSH = 11 (20 on day 10 of CCCT)/ AMH = .98 / AFC=12ish

  5 IUI's with oral meds = all BFN
  March 2012 IVF (MDL Protocol) Started stims 3/3; ER 3/11 (9R, 8M, 7F) ET 3/16 (5dt of 2 blasts graded 3AB and 3BA, 3 frosties(!!) Beta 3/26 = 386; Beta 3/28 = 827; u/s 4/11 says TWINS! Boy/Girl Twins delivered at 36 weeks 6 days

  
  

  

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• happywifemomofone member

  January 2012

  That sucks-  In my mind it just reminds me that if my turn ever comes I will try hard to be sensitive to those around me....no matter what they are dealing with.  Your turn is coming-I really feel that 2012 is your year-hang in there!  (((hugs)))

  TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome

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• BAKERMOMHDS member

  January 2012

  I know the feeling... all my girl friends are pg..and the last one to notify me, chose to send me a Christmas card with the ultrasound picture.  No phone call, nothing, just the card in the mail with the picture.. her response "I didn't know how to tell you".. GEE THANKS.

  Me = 39 DH = 50 TTC (since 01/2009 after a short break, I stopped counting *cycles* in 2010)
  DX 2010 : Unknown Infertility , AMA
  HSG 2005 = Normal / HSG 2010 = Normal
  SA 2005 = Normal / SA 2010 /2012 = Slightly low count : motility, morphology GREAT!
  Chromosomal analysis, MTHFR, ANA's, Lupus, Protein C, Protein S, APCR = Normal 2011
  
  M/C : 2005 (7wk), 2010 (6wk), 2011 (7wk)
  
  8 IUI's 2010-2011 all BFN
  
  IVF/ICSI antagonist 01/2012 #1 = BFN
  
  IVF/ICSI antagonist long 06/2012 #2 = BFN
  
  IVF/ICSI/CGH MDLF New Clinic/New RE 11/2012 #3 = One beautiful boy blasty frozen PGS normal
  
  IVF/ICSI/CGH MDLF 02/2013 #4 = One more beautiful boy blasty frozen PGS normal

  FET 6/20 : One 5AA PGS normal transferred Beta 1 6/28 = 53.9 / Beta 2 7/1 = 220 / Beta 3 7/3 = 550!

  1 U/S  6w3d - Heartbeat 119 /  2 U/S - 7w5d- Heartbeat 169 / 3 U/S (OB) 8w5d - Heartbeat still great!

  Baby G welcomed into the world 3/7/2014
  
  SAIF / PAIF always welcome ****

   

  

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• Mrs.McIrish member

  January 2012

  BAKERMOMHDS:

  I know the feeling... all my girl friends are pg..and the last one to notify me, chose to send me a Christmas card with the ultrasound picture.  No phone call, nothing, just the card in the mail with the picture.. her response "I didn't know how to tell you".. GEE THANKS.

  That is awful!!  The u/s is beyond insensitive! Wow.

  TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
  DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
  5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
  OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
  DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
  DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
  CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
  DE IVF #3 1/14  ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d

  DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
  First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
  
  K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days
  

  
  

  SAIF/PAIF Welcome

  
  

  http://waitingforraintostop.wordpress.com

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• BAKERMOMHDS member

  January 2012

  Yeah.. and today I received the "Baby shower" invite in the mail with "Children welcome" written at the bottom.. I don't think i'll be going....

  Me = 39 DH = 50 TTC (since 01/2009 after a short break, I stopped counting *cycles* in 2010)
  DX 2010 : Unknown Infertility , AMA
  HSG 2005 = Normal / HSG 2010 = Normal
  SA 2005 = Normal / SA 2010 /2012 = Slightly low count : motility, morphology GREAT!
  Chromosomal analysis, MTHFR, ANA's, Lupus, Protein C, Protein S, APCR = Normal 2011
  
  M/C : 2005 (7wk), 2010 (6wk), 2011 (7wk)
  
  8 IUI's 2010-2011 all BFN
  
  IVF/ICSI antagonist 01/2012 #1 = BFN
  
  IVF/ICSI antagonist long 06/2012 #2 = BFN
  
  IVF/ICSI/CGH MDLF New Clinic/New RE 11/2012 #3 = One beautiful boy blasty frozen PGS normal
  
  IVF/ICSI/CGH MDLF 02/2013 #4 = One more beautiful boy blasty frozen PGS normal

  FET 6/20 : One 5AA PGS normal transferred Beta 1 6/28 = 53.9 / Beta 2 7/1 = 220 / Beta 3 7/3 = 550!

  1 U/S  6w3d - Heartbeat 119 /  2 U/S - 7w5d- Heartbeat 169 / 3 U/S (OB) 8w5d - Heartbeat still great!

  Baby G welcomed into the world 3/7/2014
  
  SAIF / PAIF always welcome ****

   

  

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• AddictedToLipBalm member

  January 2012

  I feel your pain. My SIL got pg in July and announced it pretty much while the pee stick was still wet. Ever since, it's been constant baby talk on that side of the family. It's all obgyn appts, kick counts, baby clothes, and showers. Grrr! 

  

  

  Beat stage 4 Hodgkins Lymphoma May 2011, YEAH!!!

  BFP 3/30/12, with fingers and toes all crossed.

  AMA (37) + GD = HR, grr.

  EDD 12.12.12

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