Until my SS, I didn't have experience with little boys, and I didn't get to be his stepmom until he was 5. I was a nanny (au pair) all 4 years in college but to a little girl. And when we were trying to conceive and all these 4 years from then til now, DH and I both wanted a girl.
Its been a week since we found out we're having a boy. We are thrilled that our son is healthy and fall in love with him all over again every time we see a u/s. But I feel like a horrible mom for being so unprepared and nervous that he's a boy. What are baby boys like? What if I'm not good at it?
Re: calling all boy moms
Boys are amazing little versions of men. I love my sons. I was the opposite of you. I had 2 boys first and was terrified to have a lil girl. Amazingly enough maternal instinct kicks in immediately and you just know what to do some how. IMHO I think boys are easier to clean when changing diapers, they're easier to dress cuz you don't have to worry about matching accessories ect. You'll be amazed how you will just click and mom mode will take over. It's sooooo much fun. You'll be an amazing mom, don't worry about it.
Male babies are no different then female babies . Granted, there are different ways to clean the diaper area, but other then that, not much of a difference. You'll be amazing at parenting your little boy, don't start thoughts like that.
What are baby boys like? Baby boys are sweet things that love their momma more then anything in the world. They love to be talked to and looked at. They love to look around at their world. They love to be held and cuddled. Baby boys are amazing, if I do say so myself (not to knock baby girls, those are pretty wonderful and amazing too, I just don't have one).
Nursed without dairy, egg, soy, peanut, treenut, fish, shellfish or beef for over a year.
Currently tandem nursing dairy, egg, and shellfish free.
DS born via emergency c/s after 20 hrs of labor. DD successful VBAC!
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Don't worry. You will. I was totally amazed by how mine kicked in...and it happened the moment I saw him for the first time.
I understand how you feel. I haven't found out the sex yet, but I have a very strong feeling it's a boy. Which thrills me, but scares the crap out of me. I feel like I'll be so lost raising a boy- I only know girls. I know it will be fine, but for now I'm nervous about it.
That is so sweet!
Check out this website of fun boy stuff and see if it doesn't help inspire some excitement: https://www.allfortheboys.com/
You'll be just fine, Mama!
This post makes me so happy to have a son and another little dude on the way. What everyone else says about boys loving their momas is completely true. DS snuggles with me, shops with me (which includes giving me a yay or nah in the dressing room), and is also super active. He can run in circles for hours but will turn it off in a second for a good hug.
You'll do great and instantly fall in love.