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xp; POAS question for a crazy lady please

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Argh!  I can't help it, I am going crazy and obsessed!   Tongue Tied

We transferred 4 embryos on Sunday the 8th.  2 were frozen at 5 days from our previous cycle, and 2 were a fresh 3 day transfer.  The 2 frozen were the better quality - an 8 cell grade A and a 5 cell grade B.  I was not given a grading for the 2 fresh, but I can see from their pictures that they have more fragmentation. 

What (if anything) does this mean for my testing?  My beta is the 20th, but I already know I can't wait that long and will POAS.  Ermmm... because I already did this morning!!  It was negative, but it was only 7dpt.  I guess I can say I know the trigger is out of my system.  ...sigh...

Can anyone help me?  Lock me up for the next several days or something?!

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  • happywifemomofonehappywifemomofone member

    I FEEL your pain, the waiting is pure torture.  It's still early, I would think that you should give it until at least Wed to change to a BFP before becoming discouraged. Right now you are 10dpo.  There is an IVF due date calculator-I'll get the website and post it in a second.

    Ok, the website is www.ivf.ca/duedate.php  Based on your retrieval date of 1/5/12, it indicates that implantation should be completed by about 1/16/12.  Hcg is not secreted until implantation is complete (as I understand it).

    Remember, it's never over until your Beta draw though-never know.

    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
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  • XV11StarXV11Star member

    Thank you so much!!  I didn't tell my husband that I tested (or anyone else except you guys!!) and today I got so much loving, excited support from him and my family.  It crushed me to think about that stark missing line on the test!   I of course found cases of women on line getting BFPs at 5dp3dt and was getting really worried and seriously obsessing.

    The website did make me feel better, and I really needed that so thank you so much again!  I am still a little confused about the 2 frosties because they were 5 dayers, whereas the fresh ones were 3 dayers, and not as good quality.... argh it's enough to make me a total lunatic.

    Ok, deep breaths...deep breaths... and thank you again for the support and talking me off the ledge.  Confused

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  • mtlaurelmtlaurel
    It's early, but I know that doesn't help the total head game that happens during the 2ww. Hoping that you get that second line before your beta.
    TTC #1 since June 2010
    Me: 36, DH: 42
    Dx: DOR and MFI

    DH: low count + very low motility; hormones all normal; Sperm DNA Frag. test = poor to fair; male karyotyping normal
    Me: FSH 13.4 + AMH 0.26 + hypothyroidism; Scratch the hypothyrodism (?); Blood clotting and immune panel all negative; endometrial biopsy normal

    IVF #1 (MDLF - Jul/Aug 2011): BFN (9R, 5M, 3F with ICSI, 3dt of 1 10-cell grade 2, no frosties)
    IVF #2 (EP-antagonist - Sep/Oct 2011): BFN (6R, 4M, 3F w/ ICSI, 3dt of 1 6-cell, 1 7-cell, grade 4s, no frosties)
    DE IVF #1 (shared cycle - June 2012): c/p (6R, 6F w/ICSI, 3dt 1 8-cell grade A- and 1 7-cell grade A-; no frosties)
    DE IVF #2 (shared cycle with new donor - Nov/Dec/ 2012): - BFP!!!!! 12/14/12. U/S on 12/27 shows twins!!!!!

    SAIFW/PAIFW
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