Unbelievable!!!

jchasmc09 · January 2012

So when I found out about my BFP, I called my childhood bff. She was the very first one I told, and she absolutely swore up and down that she wouldn't say anything to anyone because I hadn't told anyone else yet.

I just got a text from her saying "ummm... my mom just told [my sister] that you're pregnant."

WHAT. THE. !?!?!?!?!

So she did tell her mom, and her husband, who then broke the news to my family BEFORE I COULD!!!! I am so p!ssed, and hurt, and angry. I was forced to tell my family over the phone, even though DH and I were planning go home the weekend of my first prenatal appointment, which is the 25th, and tell them in person.

I feel so betrayed. I have been dreaming of telling my family I was pregnant now for like 2 years, and I feel like she stole that from me. She sucks. :-/

MissIntentional · January 2012

Oh, I am sorry! She does suck!

melsod · January 2012

That's really crappy. I would have been super p*ssed if that had happened with us.

sjp · January 2012

I would seriously let her know how pissed off and hurt I was--

that is just wrong!

skyejo · January 2012

Ummm, why the eff would she do that? I'm so sorry. That really, really sucks

You should do something really cool as a gender reveal to make up for it! I bet your family would love it.

Areli71611 · January 2012

Oh, I'd be so p!ssed! You should tell her exactly how you feel, and why. What an @ss...

Blendedbliss · January 2012

oh ffs, i am so sorry hun, that sucks

what a moron

pawstech09 · January 2012

Wow.... I would have to seriously re-evaluate my friendship if my friend did that to me! My childhood best friend was also the very first person I told, and I trust that girl with my life, I can't imagine how I would feel if she betrayed me like your friend did... I'm sorry, your friend sucks.

mommabear7182 · January 2012

What a b****! Sorry she ruined your big spotlight!

numb3rMel · January 2012

definitely should have been yours to tell. sorry about that. I'd be TO'd at her! Probably wouldn't talk to her for a while.

mchupie · January 2012

I think a throat punch is in order, seriously. I'm so sorry; what a b!tch.

linzeek44 · January 2012

Wow, that is truly terrible.

I'm sorry that happened.

JennyVal3 · January 2012

I am so sorry that this happened to you. It's you news to share and no one else's. I would feel the exact same way as you do.

MeatballEsq · January 2012

Awh honey that is horrible! I would have a serious talk with her and really let her know how much that hurt you and how disappointed you are in her, and that you will have a hard time trusting her now.

ArtificialRed · January 2012

That is so awful. I'm so sorry this was taken away from you! I can't imagine trusting her again, or at least for a long, long time.

ehansen622 · January 2012

Wow. That really blows. Definitely tell her how completely unacceptable that is.

And her mom too, should have had the sense to STFU.

Summer1024 · January 2012

Ughhh... I'm so sorry, that really is unbelievable. I'd be sooo PO'd too! People need to learn to keep their mouths shut. I'd def have a chat with her about how you feel... I'm sure it's going to be extremely hard to trust her again. As for her mom telling, her mom shouldn't have even known... if she just kept her big mouth shut that wouldn't have been an issue! Def agree with PP, maybe a big reveal for the sex??

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