Ok, silly subject..but in all..because you didn't have to push a baby out of your vagina, get tore, or all torn up down there....are you glad?
I know it scares me to possibly have an episotomy, or tearing, or ripping, or having the vajay jay never be the same again...
Re: Is your vagina happy you had a c-section? no emerg.
well most women bounce back after vaginal deliveries and are again basically the "same"
but I did pretty well with my sections and I am happy about that.
That is what would think too. I hear it will 'go back to normal' but then I have read.." no way! It will NEVER be the same"
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this.
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I would have preferred to have had a vaginal birth.
And my vagina agrees.
I mean...sure, I'm glad I didn't have to deal with my vag tearing. But I am in no way happy that I ended up with a c/s over a vaginal birth. I would've preferred a vaginal birth with tearing over my c/s a million times over. Vaginal tearing during childbirth is natural. Getting cut open with a scalpel is not. Both can be difficult, but I'd venture to say that recovering from a major abdominal surgery sucks more than recovering from a vaginal tear 99% of the time.
Most of my reasons for hating my c/s are emotional, but I also had a tough, long recovery.
To some extent, yes, I'm glad my vag always stayed completely in tact. The thought of tearing always scared the hell out of me also.
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Recovering from my vaginal delivery was 1000x easier than my c-section, and everything is 100% back to normal. You'd never even know I had a vaginal delivery even though I had a 2nd degree tear at delivery
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Honestly, yes.
Both of my kids head size has been off the charts since birth and my son was 10lbs. I can't imagine how delivering that size of baby considering my size would have worked and everything would have been completely normal as nothing had happened. Not just for the sex aspect but Im sure I would have struggled with incontinence and such from that.
if your vagina doesnt "bounce back" even though I'm sure it will....I'm pretty sure your husband will and should understand. You had his child for crying out loud.
I had an emergency c section and I wish I didnt. Part of me felt like I missed out on an important part of my baby's life. I couldnt hold her when she first came out. They put her over the curtain for like 2 seconds. And took her away to clean her up. I cried. Not because I was happy but because I couldnt see her and hold her right away. So be careful what you wish for.