Hormonal whine

Re: Hormonal whine

• meganmgmiller member

  January 2012

  I just wish I had a sex drive. I am like a sack of potatoes in bed right now. Poor DH.
  

  

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• SaraLee301

  January 2012

  I know how you feel.  DH used to initiate it everynight or atleast on the weekends and now he never does.  I can't understand what happened.  I'm not sure if he's just being lazy because I've told him that this must be the part of my pregnancy where I want to all the time so he's fully aware of how I'm feeling.  I've told him that we need to get it in now because in a few months a) I'll be too big to want to and b) we're going to have a newborn soon that will consume all of our time.  It kind of hurts my feelings that he doesn't pay attention to me like he used to before I was pregnant.  I don't think it's because of my body changing but it's hard not to think that way.  He married me when I was heavy and then I lost a lot of weight so I know he doesn't think that way but it's hard not to be self conscious when he never wants to DTD.

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• panda10 member

  January 2012

  I'm with ya. I feel guilty.

  

   

    
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• blams05 member

  January 2012

  We haven't DTD in at least 3 weeks, maybe more. Both to blame. When I am in the mood either he isnt home or half asleep.

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• IsaacA member

  January 2012

  With DS, SO and I DTD about 5 times during my pregnancy up to 5 months.
  However, after having DS.....we probably DTD 5-6 in the 1st year we had DS. |When we found out about this baby, SO was all over me. Probably because he wanted to get a bunch in before there was a big bump in the way and that I couldn't get pregnant again.

  SO and I have talked about things recently and we agreed we need to DTD every other day since we won't be able to DTD much after LO is born. You'd rather sleep then do anything after a baby is born.

  I'd bring up the fact that he won't be getting much after the baby is born cuz you'll be too tired to do anything. You won't be able to do anything down there for 6 weeks afterwards.

    
  

     
  

  
  

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• Camille0508

  January 2012

  Sex is off limits for me because of my cerclage.  I'm not on total pelvic rest, which means I can still O (phew)... but DH and I are so not on the same page sexually.  I get up way before him and he goes to bed way after me, so our opportunities seem few and far between.  I've expressed to him how importatnt it is to me that we still make an effort to do SOMETHING, because once the baby gets here I think it's really going to put a hurting on our sex life (which was fantastic and almost a daily occurrance before pregnancy), and he agreed... we just really aren't synced up right now.  It makes me sad

  

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