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...another reason FB blows...

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It always sucks to see the ten million happy pregnancy and baby updates, but I just read on FB that a couple I know just lost their baby at around 20 weeks. 

This majorly bums me out.  They struggled for a long time to have a baby due to health factors with the mom and they were over the moon.

I'm not close friends with these people, but I am definitely going to be thinking about them for a while after reading that heartbreaking news.

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  • ukcats27ukcats27 member
    Oh no!  That's so sad :(
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    I wonder if we know the same people(not likely lol I know, weird coincidence). Good friends that I know also lost their baby girl at 20-22ish weeks(Im not exactly sure) after having to induce due to life threatening complications with the mom. They have also gone through IF for the last 6ish years I believe(maybe longer) and have had several losses due to the moms health issues. :( Its so heartbreaking
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  • genmalonegenmalone member
    I had a friend last year that delivered her baby at 22 weeks and the baby lived for 9 months.  She documented everything they went through on FB.  It was heartbreaking.  I'm glad she was so open about everything but it was hard to read.  So sad.

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  • tatercatertatercater member

    imageOnTheLanai:
    I wonder if we know the same people(not likely lol I know, weird coincidence). Good friends that I know also lost their baby girl at 20-22ish weeks(Im not exactly sure) after having to induce due to life threatening complications with the mom. They have also gone through IF for the last 6ish years I believe(maybe longer) and have had several losses due to the moms health issues. :( Its so heartbreaking

    Weird... that does sound very similar.  It's so sad that anybody anywhere has to go through this.  Ever. 

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    imagetatercater:

    imageOnTheLanai:
    I wonder if we know the same people(not likely lol I know, weird coincidence). Good friends that I know also lost their baby girl at 20-22ish weeks(Im not exactly sure) after having to induce due to life threatening complications with the mom. They have also gone through IF for the last 6ish years I believe(maybe longer) and have had several losses due to the moms health issues. :( Its so heartbreaking

    Weird... that does sound very similar.  It's so sad that anybody anywhere has to go through this.  Ever. 

    It is. When I found out on Monday night what was going on I was up til 2am sobbing for them because its just so heart wrenching :(

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    That's so sad.
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  • KaylaDW919KaylaDW919

    Oh my gosh, that is terrible. Do you notice though that even people you don't know you feel connected through for the same reason? Just reading the initial post about the terrible news made me tear up. I just hope that they have the support system as we do on here (and of course their families) to help them get through it.

    Keeping them in my thoughts...

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  • tatercatertatercater member
    imageKaylaDW919:

    Oh my gosh, that is terrible. Do you notice though that even people you don't know you feel connected through for the same reason? Just reading the initial post about the terrible news made me tear up. I just hope that they have the support system as we do on here (and of course their families) to help them get through it.

    Keeping them in my thoughts...

    Yes, I do.  I feel like I should send them a message in a few weeks to let them know I've been thinking about them, even though we don't know them that well. 

    They have a LOT of good friends... but they're friends who seem to be walking baby making machines.  It's going to be really hard.  Everyone here who is sending them well wishes is so sweet!!

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