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chart stalk and WWYBD?

Hi ladies.  

Anyone interested in chart stalking?  FF has me O'ing on Saturday.  When would you suggest BDing?  If it were up to me we would BD every day from now until Sunday but Hubby is worried about hurting himself if we try that.  Based on my info when would you suggest we try it?  

TIA! 

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BFP #3 - Evie V. Q. Fetal demise @ 16w. DC 7.8.12
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BFP  #4 - Beatrix V. Q. Born 6.2.13 at 23w6d.
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Re: chart stalk and WWYBD?

  • What do you mean FF has you O'ing on Saturday?  You mean based on last cycle?  That doesn't necessarily mean that you will O on the same date this cycle.  Since you have ferticle CM if it were me I would start BD'ing every other day until after you have confirmed crosshairs on FF. 
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  • imagedandywarhol:

    Hi ladies.  

    Anyone interested in chart stalking?  FF has me O'ing on Saturday.  When would you suggest BDing?  If it were up to me we would BD every day from now until Sunday but Hubby is worried about hurting himself if we try that.  Based on my info when would you suggest we try it?  

    TIA! 



    Well BDing doesn't have to be rough!!! ;-) Haha, there's nothing wrong with BDing every day.  Just promise to go easy on him. heehee  But if he doesn't want it every day, then every other day should be just fine.  Do you use OPKs?
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  • imagejbizoe:
    What do you mean FF has you O'ing on Saturday?  You mean based on last cycle?  That doesn't necessarily mean that you will O on the same date this cycle.  Since you have ferticle CM if it were me I would start BD'ing every other day until after you have confirmed crosshairs on FF. 

    This. I would start using OPK's to make sure you catch your O. You could be doing all this FWP for nothing. For what it's worth, DH and I hit it everyday for about 4 days leading up to & day of and so far he's been just fine. If you guys are concerned about it, every other day until a + OPK, then everyday.


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  • Buy OPK's today and use them till sat and "hump it out" every day till 3 days after. There is no harm that way. The doc told me to do it that way also and it worked the first time....GL!
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  • imageLaTi07:

    imagejbizoe:
    What do you mean FF has you O'ing on Saturday?  You mean based on last cycle?  That doesn't necessarily mean that you will O on the same date this cycle.  Since you have ferticle CM if it were me I would start BD'ing every other day until after you have confirmed crosshairs on FF. 

    This. I would start using OPK's to make sure you catch your O. You could be doing all this FWP for nothing. For what it's worth, DH and I hit it everyday for about 4 days leading up to & day of and so far he's been just fine. If you guys are concerned about it, every other day until a + OPK, then everyday.

    This is us usually, though sometimes we go a few days after just for fun/luck/fun. When in doubt, hump it out! 

  • I would use opk's and bd eod until you get a positive and then bd that day and the day ofter. Tell dh he won't hurt himself if you do it everyday.

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  • Thanks, ladies! I haven't been using OPKs but I think I'll go get some tomorrow to help. I was kinda joking about DH hurting himself, he is more worried about his stamina and aching "berries".  I think eod until I O should work.  

    Thanks!! 

    BFP #1 - Missed M/C, D&C 3.21.11

    BFP #2 - Sylvie V. Q. born and died on 10.28.11 at 21w. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    BFP #3 - Evie V. Q. Fetal demise @ 16w. DC 7.8.12
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    BFP  #4 - Beatrix V. Q. Born 6.2.13 at 23w6d.
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