TTC after 35

May I come in?

Here's a little about us.  DH and I have been together for 3 years and got married in October, 2011.  We decided to start TTC right away because I'm 35 and we want 2 children.  Cycle #1 was a "see what happens" cycle, and we got a BFN.  Cycle #2, I charted to see if O occurred.  It did, according to the BBT, which really made me happy, btw, since it was only my second cycle off BCP, but another BFN due to the fact that we barely even touched each other most of the month because we were both sick, sick, sick.  Stupid sinuses!  So here we are, on Cycle #3, day 5.  I'm still temping because I want to make sure I'm ovulating on a regular basis.  Temps have been crazy because of illness, but I expect them to regulate soon.  I'm on a stronger antibiotic now and am actually starting to feel better.

So this cycle... watch out!  

As I said before, I'm 35 (in November) so that's a concern, as you all know.  I'm also overweight, so we are working on that.  We've set a goal to run a 5k in the spring, so we have several months to work up to that.  We are also eating better and will be starting back with our regular dog walks as soon as we are both feeling better.  

Some days are better than others.  Some days, I'm feeling pretty good about TTC and telling myself that it takes healthy couples up to a year to make it happen.  Other days, the slightest change in temperature or something else that feels a little "off" will send me into a spiral of worry and fear.  I go online and read about all the people who are having trouble and it really scares me.  We don't really have the money for treatments and they are not covered under either of our insurance policies.  I know I'm jumping the gun worrying about that now, but it's just something that happens inside my head.  I know you know what I mean.  So yeah, I'm just trying not to think about it too much.  Being on here will certainly help with that, right?  lol. 


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Started TTC "2.0": 6/13, First round of Clomid: 3/14, BFP: 4/14, EDD: 12/23/14, C-Section: 12/18/14
Nathan and Nicholas are going to have so much fun together!

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Re: May I come in?

  • Welcome to the group! 
    Me: 40 Dh: 41, TTC since August 2009, began Acupuncture and Herbs Sept 2011, began Temping and Charting Nov 2011. image
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  • Welcome.  I hope it happens quickly for you!  Some of us here have been trying for a while and going through treatments, but there are a lot of ladies that are only with us for a month or two before they graduate to PA35.  You have a few more months before you should even think about worrying, especially given you know you're O-ing.
  • Welcome! Good luck to you!
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  • Welcome!
    BFP on IVF #2 6/29/2012. Beta #1 7/3 = 522; Beta #2 = 1180; Beta #3 = 6491 image BabyFruit Ticker
  • Welcome and good luck!
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    TTC #2 since July 2010
    FSH = 11 (20 on day 10 of CCCT)/ AMH = .98 / AFC=12ish
    5 IUI's with oral meds = all BFN
    March 2012 IVF (MDL Protocol) Started stims 3/3; ER 3/11 (9R, 8M, 7F) ET 3/16 (5dt of 2 blasts graded 3AB and 3BA, 3 frosties(!!) Beta 3/26 = 386; Beta 3/28 = 827; u/s 4/11 says TWINS! Boy/Girl Twins delivered at 36 weeks 6 days

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  • Welcome!

     

    Me: 38, PCOS/ DH: 37

    DD born 12.21.09, conceived w/ injects and IUI



    TTC#2 since Nov 2011

    BFP 2.6.12 m/c 6w5d | BFP 5.25.12 c/p

    -Back to the RE-

    3 medicated IUIs, all BFN

    -Taking a break from treatment-

    BFP 11.20.12 ~ EDD 7.28.13

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  • Welcome! I agree with the previous posters... Don't worry just yet. You know you're ovulating, so worry about getting healthy so you can get busy at the right time.
  • Welcome!

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    TTC since 10/2010
    IUIs # 1-5 = BFFN
    IVF # 1(July 2012) = BFN
    IVF # 2 (November 2012) = BFP (MIssed MC D&C @ 8w3d on 1/10/13)
    IVF # 3 (June 2013) = BFN 
    IVF # 4 (September 2013) = BFP Fraternal twin boys! (Loss at 21w6d due to IC on 1/26/14...devastated.)
    3/21/14--TAC (transabdominal cerclage) w/Dr. Davis in NJ
    IVF # 5 (May 2014) = BFN
    FET (August 2014) = BFN

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  • Welcome and GOOD LUCK!!
    Loving life with DH, DS (5), DD and Angel Baby DS watching down from Heaven! We are excited to be trying for our final LO! Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Thanks, ladies!  I know in my head that I shouldn't worry yet.  But my heart wants this so badly and I know how many things can go wrong.  So every once in awhile, I start to become terrified!  

    Charting has been fun, though. Am I the only bizarre one who looks forward to seeing what my temp is each morning? 


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    Started TTC "2.0": 6/13, First round of Clomid: 3/14, BFP: 4/14, EDD: 12/23/14, C-Section: 12/18/14
    Nathan and Nicholas are going to have so much fun together!

    BabyFetus Ticker
  • Welcome!  I know it's easier said than done, but try not to stress too much.  I applaud that you're charting and working on weight loss.  You're well on your way!  GL to you!
    m/c at 6 wks 2002
    Endometriosis, s/p lap 2009
    Behcet's disease, s/p partial vulvectomy 2010
    Started bromocriptine to lower prolactin level 2010
    Clear HSG 11/2010 :)
    DH morphology = 4, rest of SA looked good 01/2011
    02/2011 First Clomid 50mg cycle
    BFP 03/02/2011
    No heartbeat at 10w5d 04/18/2011; D&C 04/23/2011
    07/2011 Second Clomid 50mg cycle, BFN
    08/2011 Third Clomid 50mg cycle, BFN
    10/2011 First Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = BFN
    11/2011 Second Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = BFN
    12/2011 Third Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = BFFN
    01/2012 Fourth Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = ?
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