We found out shortly after I started a new job in October that we would be PCSing this spring. We still don't have orders, but DH recently got a RIP.
Our RNLTD is Apr 30. I'm due Mar 19. Because of multiple factors, we've decided that we would like my last day to be when I'm 36 weeks.
I've never PCSed with DH before, and I don't know the etiquette on this. Should I go ahead and turn in notice now? Give 4 weeks? Just 2 weeks? I feel like I'm deceiving them by withholding information, but at the same time I've been hesitant to do anything without official orders. I'm also afraid that since I've been there such a short time, if I give notice now, they may just let me go. I don't think they will since my boss gave me good feedback after my probationary period and has already offered me 8 weeks of unpaid maternity leave even though I don't technically qualify for anything.
I really don't know what to do. Does anyone have advice?
Re: When to tell job I'm quitting (PCS)
Employment law is very strict now days. They can comment on when you were hired, when you left, did you provide notice, and some companies allow to comment on if you would be hired back. Discrimination is a fine line as well, and if they comment that you were pregnant and then left it would could be violating some serious privacy rules most companies aren't will to share for the sake of a new employer reference check. If you showed up every day do your job, was a good employee would you worked for the company, I would not feel bad at all. Remember it is professional not personal. If it is in your best interest to leave at 36 weeks do it. Don't think that if the company had the chance to do something in their best interest that may not be in yours they would think twice about doing it.
This exactly. A lot could happen between then and now.
This too!