TTC After a Loss

PSA: Be careful where you Bump (BFP mentioned, not mine)

So, this morning I was at the stone yard getting a piece of slate fixed. Only the owner was in the shop and he was super busy, so while I was waiting around, I headed over to PgAL where one our lovely ladies had posted a BFP announcement. Of course, I'm on the iphone so I have to zoom in real close to read the text. I'm scrolling scrolling scrolling, and then he calls me over to deal with the stone issue. We head out back to the workroom and are looking at my stone pieces. Were standing there trying to figure out how much to shave the corners when I realize I just need to show him the picture of what I need done.

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 I open up my phone, and up comes

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I'm totally like 

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And he's all

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I must have looked like this

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Because he quickly gave me the


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So there I am, standing in the middle of a wet cold stone fabrication room telling him quickly about our loss and that we're now TTC. Of course he said

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Which was sweet, but not really how I wanted my day to go.

Anyway, no real point, other than it was actually a funny incident ---- but not really.

 

 

 

 

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Re: PSA: Be careful where you Bump (BFP mentioned, not mine)

  • Funny, but not. I am sorry.

    Although the Jessica Simpson pic is hilarious.

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  • OH no! ((Huge hugs))
  • (hugs) I'm sorry. It always sucks to have those awkward interactions.

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  • I'm so sorry that happened to you, that totally sucks.... but i have to say that pic of W made my day! 
  • I know it's not funny, but hopefully you can look back one day and laugh, your pictures certainly made me laugh. And I agree bumping can be really dangerous sometimes.
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  • I'm so sorry that happened!

    However, your PIP's were the best.

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  • Funny, but not funny, but your pictures are funny. ((hugs))
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  • The situation sucks but the way you told your story was awesome.. Sorry you had a rough day. 
  • ((hugs))
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  • That sucks! My phone does this thing where if you touch the middle of the screen you get my search history. I'm always scared to lend my cell
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  • Just so you know, I am rolling on the floor.

    I'm so sorry about the awkwardness... I've experienced that a time or two myself... but at least you are able laugh about it in some way.

  • well, that was an entertaining way to tell a story! and a good lesson for me to hear, too. sorry about your incident.

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  • I'm sorry :(  I do have to admit that the Jessica Simpson pic made me giggle!
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  • Oh I am so sorry! It would have been kinda funny if there wasn't a loss involved. I hope the rest of your day is better. ((hugs))
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  • This post is awesomeness.

    I'm sorry that you're experience this morning wasn't... 

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  • Yikes! ((hugs))
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  • ((hugs)) liked how you told the story tho! :)
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  • I simultaneously cringed at your story while giggling at the PIP's. So sorry you went through that!
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  • (((Hugs)))
  • Your pics are awesome!  Sorry that you had to go through that though.

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  • So sorry  you had to go through that, but your pics made me laugh, especially JSimps and W.

    I had something kinda like that happen last month on a business trip with my boss. We both decided to do the iPhone check-in for our flight, and when I got out my phone while in the security line, "The Bump" was really big and zoomed in on the screen. I think I kind of jumped and then awkwardly turned the phone away from him while I switched screens to bring up my boarding pass. I have no idea if he saw or whether he knows what TB is (and he doesn't know about my PG or MC), but the way I got all jumpy and awkward probably totally looked like guilt. At this point, I just hope he thought I had porn on my phone or something. Tongue Tied

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  • Oh no!! I'm so sorry! 


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  • Yike. I am sorry that that happened.....

    Though I love your PIPs. 

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  • Sorry you had that misunderstanding. I loved your PIP
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  • loved the PIP story :)
    sorry for the actual event :(
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  • I'm sorry you had to deal with that today, but love your pip's.

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  • ((hugs)) this post was both hysterical and super sad
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