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Cremains continued..

niknak1128niknak1128 member
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Soo finally got up the courage to talk to DH about the cremains.  I said.. I did something.. I'm not sure you'll be ok with it.. but I need to tell you.  I told him and he said why on earth would you think I would be mad that you want her cremains and have started the process?  I said well you didn't want them before and I don't want to disrespect your greiving process either.  But he was totally fine with him. I feel SO much better!!

 Called the office of anatomical donations yesterday too.. they are calling me next week when the cremains are available for pick up. Yikes! I'm so scared. I know I'm going to totally lose it.  My cousin is going to come with me. I work with her and she lost her baby 20 years ago at 32 weeks and actually donated to the same doctor that we did for research.  I'm so glad! I did not want to do this alone.

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  • roxyttandmeroxyttandme member

    I am so glad it went well! Sounds like you have a very understanding DH. 

    I hope the day you pick up the remains isn't as tough as you anticipate. I can remember doing  it- and it was a day I will never forget. It was great to bring my daughter home with us - but of course not the way we wanted. 

    (((hugs))) 

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  • careyaliscareyalis member
    Your husband sounds like an awesome guy.  I am so glad that you were able to get that off of your chest and that he is understanding of your feelings.  GL with pick up day-I will be thinking about you ((hugs))



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    I agree with the others, you have a fabulous husband. Hugs to you and I hope picking them up goes well for you. 
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  • Petunia844Petunia844 member
    I'm so glad your husband was understanding and that you have someone to go with you.  DH was at work when I went to pick up Peyton, so my sister came with me... it made all the difference in the world, I was terrified to go alone.
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    I am so glad he was understanding-what an awesome guy!

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