TTC After a Loss

im def attending the bitter party! (preg mentioned, not mine)

so, long story short - i work for my father at his manufacturing company, my uncle does too. we were all having lunch & he got a phone call that his daughter (my cousin) is in the hospital in labor. I knew it was coming because she is due next week. I could tell by the look on his face exactly what the phone call was about & i could tell he was hesitant about telling me (he knows about my m/c). I am super happy for my cousin this is her 2nd baby & the gender is a surprise! I have been over the entire ordeal & havnt cried in weeks, but that sent my great mood into the sh!tter! Not to mention my other 2 cousins just had their babies 5 weeks ago 2 days apart. & today is a month since we found out there was no baby in the sac. blah Crying I guess ill grab my bitter shirt & head to the party! thanks for listening ladies <3
BFP #1 - 10/10/11, 1st U/S 12/5/11 @ 8w, BO discovered, d&c 12/9/11. HCG @ 0 - 1/4/11.
BFP #2 - 04/04/12, 1st Beta @ 9DPO 19, 2nd Beta @ 13 DPO 168. 1st u/s - 4/30/12 - we have a heartbeat!!
Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
Daisypath Anniversary tickers
image * * PGAL/PAL/TTCAL Always Welcome! * *

Re: im def attending the bitter party! (preg mentioned, not mine)

  • Loading the player...
  • ((big hugs)).  Sorry you're having a rough day.

    I'll see you over at the bitter party.

    Married since 7/25/2009
    BFP #1 9/25/2011 | EDD 6/1/2012 | M/C 10/26/2011 at 8w6d
    BFP #2 3/13/2012 | EDD 11/23/2012
    9DPO hcg: 45; Prog: 41 | 14DPO hcg: 694 | 17DPO hcg: 2733 | 28DPO hcg: 53,006
    First u/s 4/13 showed a beating heart! Second u/s 5/2 showed a HB of 163! Let's GROW, baby!
    He's here! Kellen born 11/16/12 - 8 lbs 8 oz 22 inches long via scheduled c-section (breech baby, gestational diabetes mama)
  • Lots of hugs your way!
    Gabriel Joseph 6/13/2010
    BFP#2: 8/14/11 M/C 8/30/11 6w1d
    BFP #3: 10/26/11
    Beta #1 @11dpo: 22 Beta #2 @13dpo: 90 Beta #3 @17dpo: 480
    Missed m/c 12w3d 12/28/11, d&c 12/30/11
    dx Homozygous C677T MTHFR image image
  • Getting news like that always puts me in a bad mood. So glad that I sent out the shirts and the party is on. Get on over here!
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    Started TTC June 2010
    BFP #1
    07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
    BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
    TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
    BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
    TTA for 7 months
    Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
    TTC Again May 2014
    Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles
    - All BFN's
    SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results

    Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
    TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
    Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
    Image and video hosting by TinyPicImage and video hosting by TinyPicImage and video hosting by TinyPic   

    My Blog: The Canadian Housewife    PGAL/PAL Welcome    My Chart
    imageImage and video hosting by TinyPic
  • ((hugs))
    BFP#1 7/09 DS born 3/30/10 BFP#2 5/11 M/C 6/11 BFP#3 9/11 M/C 10/11 BFP #4 5/20/12 Pregnancy Ticker
  • ((HUGS)) I'm so sorry, that must truly suck.  Have a strong drink at the party!  :)

    image

    BFP #1: 8/2011 ** EDD:  5/9/2012 **  Missed m/c discovered at 13 weeks

    BFP #2: 4/4/2012 ** EDD:  12/24/12 ** Born: Charlotte "Charlie" Olivia   12/18/2013, 8 lbs 1 oz, 21 inches!!!  


  • I feel your pain. A friend of mine was pregnant same time as me and she was 5 weeks ahead of me. Me losing the baby and her continueing to go strong is so devistating. I feel like we don't talk as much and Ill just shoot her texts here and there. I just can't handle it...IM SO BITTER TOWARDS ALL PREGNANT WOMAN! and of course I heard of 4 new pregnancies this week. What did I ever do to deserve this? What did we all ever do?? Im taking OPK's but they have all been negative..go figure. Im irregular anyways so I have a feeling Ill be speding $$$ this month on OPK's. We are so ready to try again but I just feel I have no patience. UGH!!!!! Thanks for listening all...I know Im not the only one.
    Me: 24 DH: 27 12/7/2011- Faint BFP #1- 12/18/2011- early m/c at 5 weeks- CP 1/30/2012- Faint BFP #2- 2/17/2012-early miscarriage at 6 weeks- CP RLP done- 1 copy C77T hetero MTHFR-Slight hypothyroid-normal HSG. 8/2012 and 9/2012 Clomid + TI= BFN 10/2012- follistim 7.5 and IUI #1- BFN (pressured into this IUI) 12/2012-BFP #3- 2 days later started bleeding. 3rd CP. 1/18/2013 BFP #4. Beta #1- 14.7(10dpo) 99.5(13dpo) 263 15(dpo).STICK LITTLE PEANUT- WE LOVE YOU!
  • imagejess8788:
    I feel your pain. A friend of mine was pregnant same time as me and she was 5 weeks ahead of me. Me losing the baby and her continueing to go strong is so devistating. I feel like we don't talk as much and Ill just shoot her texts here and there. I just can't handle it...IM SO BITTER TOWARDS ALL PREGNANT WOMAN! and of course I heard of 4 new pregnancies this week. What did I ever do to deserve this? What did we all ever do?? Im taking OPK's but they have all been negative..go figure. Im irregular anyways so I have a feeling Ill be speding $$$ this month on OPK's. We are so ready to try again but I just feel I have no patience. UGH!!!!! Thanks for listening all...I know Im not the only one.

    AMEN! me too!! I keep asking myself the same questions, WHY ME!? What did I DO?! i know thats not healthy but eh - let me have my pity party! Party!!! your not the only one, at all! ((hugs))

    BFP #1 - 10/10/11, 1st U/S 12/5/11 @ 8w, BO discovered, d&c 12/9/11. HCG @ 0 - 1/4/11.
    BFP #2 - 04/04/12, 1st Beta @ 9DPO 19, 2nd Beta @ 13 DPO 168. 1st u/s - 4/30/12 - we have a heartbeat!!
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    image * * PGAL/PAL/TTCAL Always Welcome! * *
  • I'm sorry your having a rough time :(  BIG hugs to you!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • imagejess8788:
    I feel your pain. A friend of mine was pregnant same time as me and she was 5 weeks ahead of me. Me losing the baby and her continueing to go strong is so devistating. I feel like we don't talk as much and Ill just shoot her texts here and there. I just can't handle it...IM SO BITTER TOWARDS ALL PREGNANT WOMAN! and of course I heard of 4 new pregnancies this week. What did I ever do to deserve this? What did we all ever do?? Im taking OPK's but they have all been negative..go figure. Im irregular anyways so I have a feeling Ill be speding $$$ this month on OPK's. We are so ready to try again but I just feel I have no patience. UGH!!!!! Thanks for listening all...I know Im not the only one.

    The secret's out on OPK's - go to amazon and buy wondfos.  I got like 40 of them and 10 HPT's for I think like $15.  They don't come with directions but are easy to use. 

    Married since 7/25/2009
    BFP #1 9/25/2011 | EDD 6/1/2012 | M/C 10/26/2011 at 8w6d
    BFP #2 3/13/2012 | EDD 11/23/2012
    9DPO hcg: 45; Prog: 41 | 14DPO hcg: 694 | 17DPO hcg: 2733 | 28DPO hcg: 53,006
    First u/s 4/13 showed a beating heart! Second u/s 5/2 showed a HB of 163! Let's GROW, baby!
    He's here! Kellen born 11/16/12 - 8 lbs 8 oz 22 inches long via scheduled c-section (breech baby, gestational diabetes mama)
  • I, too, had a blighted ovum and know how you feel. One of my best friends called me on the day of my D&C to tell me she was preggo "by accident" as they weren't planning on another baby for at least another year (she had just had a baby three months prior). I was happy for her... but I'll never forget the way I felt after I hung up the phone... my DH had to chase me up the stairs. It's a bittersweet feeling for sure.

    Lots of hugs! 

  • ((HUGS))
    1st BFP 10/11/11. MMC 9wks 3days.Measuring 6wks 1day D&C 11/15/11 Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Daisypath Anniversary tickers "http://lilypie.com/">Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • Hugs, I'm sorry that this is a time of such mixed emotions.
    BFP #1 (m/c at 9 weeks, 11/11) BFP #2 (DS, 12/11/12) BFP #3 (EDD 10/8/14)
    BabyFruit Ticker

  • imagejess8788:
    I feel your pain. A friend of mine was pregnant same time as me and she was 5 weeks ahead of me. Me losing the baby and her continueing to go strong is so devistating. I feel like we don't talk as much and Ill just shoot her texts here and there. I just can't handle it...IM SO BITTER TOWARDS ALL PREGNANT WOMAN! and of course I heard of 4 new pregnancies this week. What did I ever do to deserve this? What did we all ever do?? Im taking OPK's but they have all been negative..go figure. Im irregular anyways so I have a feeling Ill be speding $$$ this month on OPK's. We are so ready to try again but I just feel I have no patience. UGH!!!!! Thanks for listening all...I know Im not the only one.

     (((HUGS))) I think we all know how you feel. 

    My co-worker has PCOS and has been TTC for about a year now after their loss. Well, they recently decided to take a long break after she had a really bad reaction to some fertility drugs :(

    In the midst of all of this going on, she and I got really close because we had both experienced losses. She asked me yesterday if DH and I had were TTC yet and I told her yes... well today she brought in a bag stuffed full of early HPT's and OPK's that she gets for free from her fertility clinic. She's been absolutely great and just saved us a ton!  She also told me that amazon.com usually has tests online for much cheaper and you can usually get more in a box that way. You might want to check them out :)

This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"