TTC after 35

the best laid scheduling plans

Ugh -- just got a positive OPK, which is normally a good thing, but...it is a couple days earlier than expected and it is going to throw my schedule off for the next 3 months.  When I came home in December, I was hoping to be able to do an IUI in January, which we won't happen since my doctor is waiting for my husband to see a urologist.  February is sort of out -- my husband will be traveling and closer to me in Philly, so we can try naturally, but no IUI (my doctor is in Austin).  And if I go back to my regular ovulation patterns, I will miss the chance for an IUI during my spring break in March by a few days. 

I am so ready to be in the same city as DH and not have to stress over timing everything just right.

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Re: the best laid scheduling plans

  • Just an idea:  Dr. C.heck at Cooper Institute is in Marlton, NJ= only about 20 mins outside of Philly. His office works remotely all the time- maybe they could do the IUI for you in Feb?

    PS: even if not covered by ins, C.heck's office has really really low prices.

    TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
    DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
    5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
    OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
    DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
    DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
    CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
    DE IVF #3 1/14  ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d

    DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
    First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!

    K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days

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  • Sorry about all of your scheduling issues, I'm sure that's stressful!  On another note...I am in Austin!  I don't know how familiar you are with Austin, but it's such a great place to live!  PM me if you ever have any questions as you are making the move! 
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  • Excellent idea, McIrish.  I'll definitely look into it!  It might be tough since "close to Philly" means my husband will actually be in DC, but we can always change our preferred fertility aid from American Airlines (PHL to AUS) to Amtrak (DC to Philly). 

    Kelly, I LOVE Austin -- lived here for about 8 years.  My husband has been here for 2 years, and I am moving back in May! 

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  • I hope you & DH can be in the same city soon!


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    TTC since 10/2010
    IUIs # 1-5 = BFFN
    IVF # 1(July 2012) = BFN
    IVF # 2 (November 2012) = BFP (MIssed MC D&C @ 8w3d on 1/10/13)
    IVF # 3 (June 2013) = BFN 
    IVF # 4 (September 2013) = BFP Fraternal twin boys! (Loss at 21w6d due to IC on 1/26/14...devastated.)
    3/21/14--TAC (transabdominal cerclage) w/Dr. Davis in NJ
    IVF # 5 (May 2014) = BFN
    FET (August 2014) = BFN

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  • Ugh.  That is frustrating!  Maybe you can ask your Austin dr what they recommend?  McIrish's idea is a good one.  

     Hooray for moving back to Austin.  I really love it here. 

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    Excellent idea, McIrish.  I'll definitely look into it!  It might be tough since "close to Philly" means my husband will actually be in DC, but we can always change our preferred fertility aid from American Airlines (PHL to AUS) to Amtrak (DC to Philly). 

    Kelly, I LOVE Austin -- lived here for about 8 years.  My husband has been here for 2 years, and I am moving back in May! 

    If you are going to be in DC then you may want to take McIrish's idea and see if you can use Shady Grove Fertility.  They say that they treat people that live all over the world.  Once when I was there, there was a couple from NJ that was getting treatment at SG.  I can't immagine that they would drive to DC for every monitoring appointment.

    BFP on IVF #2 6/29/2012. Beta #1 7/3 = 522; Beta #2 = 1180; Beta #3 = 6491 image BabyFruit Ticker
  • I am in awe of how you juggle RE dealings with the long distance between you two. I hope you can find a way to pursue your plans and don't get delayed.
    TTC #1 since June 2010
    Me: 36, DH: 42
    Dx: DOR and MFI

    DH: low count + very low motility; hormones all normal; Sperm DNA Frag. test = poor to fair; male karyotyping normal
    Me: FSH 13.4 + AMH 0.26 + hypothyroidism; Scratch the hypothyrodism (?); Blood clotting and immune panel all negative; endometrial biopsy normal

    IVF #1 (MDLF - Jul/Aug 2011): BFN (9R, 5M, 3F with ICSI, 3dt of 1 10-cell grade 2, no frosties)
    IVF #2 (EP-antagonist - Sep/Oct 2011): BFN (6R, 4M, 3F w/ ICSI, 3dt of 1 6-cell, 1 7-cell, grade 4s, no frosties)
    DE IVF #1 (shared cycle - June 2012): c/p (6R, 6F w/ICSI, 3dt 1 8-cell grade A- and 1 7-cell grade A-; no frosties)
    DE IVF #2 (shared cycle with new donor - Nov/Dec/ 2012): - BFP!!!!! 12/14/12. U/S on 12/27 shows twins!!!!!

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  • Thanks, mtlaurel.  We are lucky that my job as a professor is flexible enough that I can make last minute travel plans without having to clear them with a boss.  Only 15 weeks left of this juggling.
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  • imagemtlaurel:
    I am in awe of how you juggle RE dealings with the long distance between you two. I hope you can find a way to pursue your plans and don't get delayed.

    This! I have enough anxiety around our work schedules, but at least we are in the same city! Good luck to you - I hope it works out!

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    TTC #2 since July 2010
    FSH = 11 (20 on day 10 of CCCT)/ AMH = .98 / AFC=12ish
    5 IUI's with oral meds = all BFN
    March 2012 IVF (MDL Protocol) Started stims 3/3; ER 3/11 (9R, 8M, 7F) ET 3/16 (5dt of 2 blasts graded 3AB and 3BA, 3 frosties(!!) Beta 3/26 = 386; Beta 3/28 = 827; u/s 4/11 says TWINS! Boy/Girl Twins delivered at 36 weeks 6 days

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