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  • shwaydshwayd
    The whole thing is pretty sad...and it's been going on for DAYS now!  What a shame that there isn't a comfortable place for bump women to go who have had a m/c.
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  • BearkatLouBearkatLou member

    imageshwayd:
    The whole thing is pretty sad...and it's been going on for DAYS now!  What a shame that there isn't a comfortable place for bump women to go who have had a m/c.

    I don't know who's side I'm on... it difficult to look at and I can't imagine seeing it after a m/c, but then again she has the right. I'm switz on this one.

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  • shwaydshwayd
    imageBearkatLou:

    imageshwayd:
    The whole thing is pretty sad...and it's been going on for DAYS now!  What a shame that there isn't a comfortable place for bump women to go who have had a m/c.

    I don't know who's side I'm on... it difficult to look at and I can't imagine seeing it after a m/c, but then again she has the right. I'm switz on this one.

    I'm with you...I guess i'm on the side of "to each their own".  I think for people who don't want to look at it they just need to ignore it.  The more they fight her on it the longer she will keep it up there. 

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  • Mrs.KentMrs.Kent
    I'm with you, Bearkat.  While I personally find the image disturbing, I think she has the right to post it, especially on the P/L board.
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  • dmsmthdmsmth member

    It sucks.  It was such a great place when I was ther 6 months ago.  I see no problem w/ her siggy and don't find it offensive but either way to each their own.  It's a public board and she has every right to have her son's picture there is she wants to.

    The drama needs to be checked at the door.

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  • smiles88smiles88

    I am sad to see the drame continue.

    They really need to agree to disagree.

    PL board should be a safe place. In the 8 months i hung out there I never saw drama like this.

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  • hula_lulahula_lula
    I think it's really sad. What an awful thing to argue about
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  • mollymurphymollymurphy
    I don't get how the drama is continuing. If you don't like seeing the picture (and I'll admit, it's a little difficult to see for some of us), get the ad blocking software (which has been suggested many times) and then you don't have to see it. End of story.
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  • BlairWaldorfBlairWaldorf member
    I refuse to even go over to that board & watch the drama.  IMO, that is one of the few boards where even trolls should have respect.
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  • hula_lulahula_lula

    imageBlairWaldorf:
    IMO, that is one of the few boards where even trolls should have respect.

    Amen and a thousand dittos

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  • CalinsBrideCalinsBride

    I think I see both sides. . .It is extremely painful to look at, but there is no reason anyone needs to see it. If they don't want to get ad blocking software, they can always just block her altogether. I have to admit thats probably what I would do, because although it is her right its just too hard to look at.

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  • BluesmootheeBluesmoothee

    So, it's anyone's right on here to post ANYTHING they  want to in a sig pic? So, if I posted a picture of someone w/ their brains splattered everywhere, or some other graphic picture, that's just okay?

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  • BluesmootheeBluesmoothee
    imagehula_lula:

    imageBlairWaldorf:
    IMO, that is one of the few boards where even trolls should have respect.

    Amen and a thousand dittos

     

    Please.....just because someone disagrees w/ someone else and they don't mince their words doesn't mean they're a troll. Get real.

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  • hula_lulahula_lula
    imageBluesmoothee:
    imagehula_lula:

    imageBlairWaldorf:
    IMO, that is one of the few boards where even trolls should have respect.

    Amen and a thousand dittos

     

    Please.....just because someone disagrees w/ someone else and they don't mince their words doesn't mean they're a troll. Get real.

    Did I say "Bluesmoothee is a troll"? NO. But there have been trolls on there before. I know this because I was on the board at one point. And it's stupid. That's a completely uncool place to post troll-ish things.

    At no point did I say "I think that bluesmoothee chick is totally wrong". I just said that it's sad that anyone even HAS to argue over there.

    So perhaps take a step back and realized that not EVERYTHING is an attack on you.

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  • BlairWaldorfBlairWaldorf member
    Whatevs, Hula...GET REAL.  Gah.
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  • hula_lulahula_lula

    imageBlairWaldorf:
    Whatevs, Hula...GET REAL.  Gah.

    ::snort:: I know, right?

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  • NerwakNerwak

    All of that totally sucks... it was a great haven for me earlier this year. I guess I'm on the 'no offense' side of things. While I see that she has the right to do it, if it is offensive to others, I would take it down. That board is supposed to be a place of comfort and peace for EVERYONE.

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  • WaterthrushWaterthrush
    imageBluesmoothee:
    imagehula_lula:

    imageBlairWaldorf:
    IMO, that is one of the few boards where even trolls should have respect.

    Amen and a thousand dittos

     

    Please.....just because someone disagrees w/ someone else and they don't mince their words doesn't mean they're a troll. Get real.

    Okay, I'm putting my two cents in. If all someone does is go in and disagree with other people, then they probably are a troll. It makes me think that they are only there to make other people upset. Another term for that is griefer. If someone goes in and disagrees when they have other posts that were there before about their own experiences or can show the ability to get along with others, then they probably are not trolling.

    So in my opinion (which doesn't buy anything I'm aware), there are some people there who are ordinary people and disagree and some who seem to be there for the single reason of trying to upset people who are already going through a horrible time.

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  • hula_lulahula_lula
    imageWaterthrush:
    imageBluesmoothee:
    imagehula_lula:

    imageBlairWaldorf:
    IMO, that is one of the few boards where even trolls should have respect.

    Amen and a thousand dittos

     

    Please.....just because someone disagrees w/ someone else and they don't mince their words doesn't mean they're a troll. Get real.

    Okay, I'm putting my two cents in. If all someone does is go in and disagree with other people, then they probably are a troll. It makes me think that they are only there to make other people upset. Another term for that is griefer. If someone goes in and disagrees when they have other posts that were there before about their own experiences or can show the ability to get along with others, then they probably are not trolling.

    So in my opinion (which doesn't buy anything I'm aware), there are some people there who are ordinary people and disagree and some who seem to be there for the single reason of trying to upset people who are already going through a horrible time.

    And again. I never called her a troll. Not once.

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  • WaterthrushWaterthrush
    imagehula_lula:
    And again. I never called her a troll. Not once.
    Sorry, I never meant for you to think that. I was just responding to what she said.
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  • AngelLuver_02AngelLuver_02 member
    the whole drama on that board is really upsetting and depressing to me, that board was such a support to me when I m/c in August.... i hope everyone can just mind their own buisness.
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  • renebean319renebean319
    imageNerwak:

    All of that totally sucks... it was a great haven for me earlier this year. I guess I'm on the 'no offense' side of things. While I see that she has the right to do it, if it is offensive to others, I would take it down. That board is supposed to be a place of comfort and peace for EVERYONE.

     

    too bad she doesn't see it that way.

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