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Pre-Kids/No-Kids Sex Life - clicky poll
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As someone suggested in the other thread - let's see if we can really blame the kids for lack of sex 
So if you have no kids go ahead and answer and if you have kids think back to the pre-kid/pre-pregnancy days.
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So if you have no kids go ahead and answer and if you have kids think back to the pre-kid/pre-pregnancy days.[Poll]
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Re: Pre-Kids/No-Kids Sex Life - clicky poll
Over the course of 11 pre-pregnant years, we've covered all of these options, except for "none." I picked the one that fit us for the longest period of time. Which sadly is not "multiple times per week," as fun as that was for a while
lol! Well that's exactly how I was hoping people would answer. Of course there are ups and downs, but averaging those out, what amount seems to fit the relationship.
This for sure. We were having sex multiple times a week for the first, say, 5 - 6 months... definitely everyday and sometimes multiple times a day for the first 2 - 3. After that, well our relationship became semi-long distance over the summer, then he had a super busy senior year of college, then we were semi-long distance again for the next 2 years. So I'd say it was weekly to every other week. We lived together after that, but by then I'd been on hormonal birth control for years and my libido was shot. So it was maybe every other week to a few times a month. It picked up with TTC, but dropped off dramatically once I was pregnant.
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um yeah, that was me. and I DID answer based on what we averaged before our guy was born. I know you already know where we are right now, TT, because we've talked about it privately. on that one, though, I voted a few times a month, because I think overall that's where we've been--sometimes more sometimes less. we've been in a bit of a slump where it's probably been more like once every month (in large part due to my depression about the MCs, and working opposite shifts making it difficult to find baby-free time for adult extracurriculars) so I did debate on my answer for that one, but overall I think that's pretty accurate. I'm happy to report that we're on an upswing, though.
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*sigh* C and I were just talking about that the other day. Those days when we would actually cancel plans with friends to stay in bed all day!
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Let's just say, I was probably a bunny rabbit in a previous life. LOL!
Between a rough pregnancy and twins things have definitely changed.