TTC after 35

Entertainment on another board

 I found this on another board and am amused...

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/61823639.aspx

 Cuckoo, cuckoo....

TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
DE IVF #3 1/14  ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d

DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!

K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days

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Re: Entertainment on another board

  • imagehijoi:

    SIGGY WARNING!!!!!!!!!

    I knew before I even clicked it what it was.... Yeah. Confused

    That said, I want to join Melle's book club, I have been chart stalking everyone and hope that all is going well for you too, McIrish. Loved your resolutions by the way. 

    Your board was pretty nice to her.. Sadly, I want to tell her to a get a blood draw for CA-125 as pain in your pelvis etc could be ovarian C and it is misdiagnosed a lot and doesn't show up on u/s. 

    TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
    DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
    5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
    OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
    DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
    DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
    CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
    DE IVF #3 1/14  ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d

    DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
    First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!

    K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days

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    SAIF/PAIF Welcome


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  • Oh my.... I will definitely be watching for the after checkup post!
    Me: 40 Dh: 41, TTC since August 2009, began Acupuncture and Herbs Sept 2011, began Temping and Charting Nov 2011. image
  • All I can say is... WOW! I hope she's right, since this is what she wants so badly, but I have to agree with the person that mentioned the lack of sac on the u/s... They would have seen something.
  • I saw that earlier, too, and didn't know whether to think it was funny or terribly, terribly sad.
    TTC #1 since June 2010
    Me: 36, DH: 42
    Dx: DOR and MFI

    DH: low count + very low motility; hormones all normal; Sperm DNA Frag. test = poor to fair; male karyotyping normal
    Me: FSH 13.4 + AMH 0.26 + hypothyroidism; Scratch the hypothyrodism (?); Blood clotting and immune panel all negative; endometrial biopsy normal

    IVF #1 (MDLF - Jul/Aug 2011): BFN (9R, 5M, 3F with ICSI, 3dt of 1 10-cell grade 2, no frosties)
    IVF #2 (EP-antagonist - Sep/Oct 2011): BFN (6R, 4M, 3F w/ ICSI, 3dt of 1 6-cell, 1 7-cell, grade 4s, no frosties)
    DE IVF #1 (shared cycle - June 2012): c/p (6R, 6F w/ICSI, 3dt 1 8-cell grade A- and 1 7-cell grade A-; no frosties)
    DE IVF #2 (shared cycle with new donor - Nov/Dec/ 2012): - BFP!!!!! 12/14/12. U/S on 12/27 shows twins!!!!!

    SAIFW/PAIFW
  • WTF?! This person is either completely delusional or this is MUD.
    m/c at 6 wks 2002
    Endometriosis, s/p lap 2009
    Behcet's disease, s/p partial vulvectomy 2010
    Started bromocriptine to lower prolactin level 2010
    Clear HSG 11/2010 :)
    DH morphology = 4, rest of SA looked good 01/2011
    02/2011 First Clomid 50mg cycle
    BFP 03/02/2011
    No heartbeat at 10w5d 04/18/2011; D&C 04/23/2011
    07/2011 Second Clomid 50mg cycle, BFN
    08/2011 Third Clomid 50mg cycle, BFN
    10/2011 First Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = BFN
    11/2011 Second Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = BFN
    12/2011 Third Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = BFFN
    01/2012 Fourth Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = ?
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  • **ticker**

    She seems to have some serious mental health issues -- I hope one of the multitude of doctors she's been seeing is smart enough to pick up on that and get her some help. 


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  • imageELF4321:

    **ticker**

    She seems to have some serious mental health issues -- I hope one of the multitude of doctors she's been seeing is smart enough to pick up on that and get her some help. 

    I think you are right. At first I was thinking it was MUD but it really is sad if not. I shouldn't have even posted this.  I will call myself out for it.

    TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
    DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
    5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
    OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
    DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
    DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
    CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
    DE IVF #3 1/14  ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d

    DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
    First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!

    K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days

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    SAIF/PAIF Welcome


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  • I want to tell her to get in her car and drive to the nearest ER and insist on a blood test and ultrasound.

    I really, really hope this is MUD. Her post-count is low. I have not checked her other posts. 

    Single Mother by Choice. Life didn't work out the way I planned so I did it on my own. IUI #s 1-3, unmedicated = BFN, IUI #s 4-6, 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel = BFN IVF #1: 23R, 20M, 17F. 5 day transfer 2 blasts. 2 Snowbabies BFP 6dp5dt, Beta #1 7dp5dt = 58, Beta #2 9dp5dt = 114, Beta #3 10dp5dt = 187 1st Ultrasound = 5/3, not much to see yet. 2nd Ultrasound = 5/17, TWINS!!! Hospital Bed Rest at 32 weeks due to pre-ecclampsia and severe edema. Audrey Grace, 5lbs9oz, & Lydia Louise, 6lbs, born via emergency c-section on 12/6/12 at 36w1d My IVF Journey
  • imageMrs.McIrish:
    imagehijoi:

    SIGGY WARNING!!!!!!!!!

    I knew before I even clicked it what it was.... Yeah. Confused

    That said, I want to join Melle's book club, I have been chart stalking everyone and hope that all is going well for you too, McIrish. Loved your resolutions by the way. 

    Your board was pretty nice to her.. Sadly, I want to tell her to a get a blood draw for CA-125 as pain in your pelvis etc could be ovarian C and it is misdiagnosed a lot and doesn't show up on u/s. 

    Agreed. My first was ovarian cancer too.

    I thought the ladies over there were exceedingly nice, and I liked how lhcooper provided a link.  In response the original poster intimated that people like coop were part of the problem.  Definitely an odd situation.

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  • imageMrs.McIrish:
    imageELF4321:

    **ticker**

    She seems to have some serious mental health issues -- I hope one of the multitude of doctors she's been seeing is smart enough to pick up on that and get her some help. 

    I think you are right. At first I was thinking it was MUD but it really is sad if not. I shouldn't have even posted this.  I will call myself out for it.

    She's posted a few times before, back when she first thought she was pg, then when the doctor told her she was going through menopause and she was devastated, and now again when she's convinced herself that it's not really menopause after all.  I think it's legit, which is why I really hope she gets some help.  This strikes me as the kind of situation that could turn into one of those crazy people who steals someone else's baby or something if she doesn't get some help soon.  Wish the Bump had a "report to local mental health officials" button.


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  • imageMrs.McIrish:
    imageELF4321:

    **ticker**

    She seems to have some serious mental health issues -- I hope one of the multitude of doctors she's been seeing is smart enough to pick up on that and get her some help. 

    I think you are right. At first I was thinking it was MUD but it really is sad if not. I shouldn't have even posted this.  I will call myself out for it.

    Dont feel bad, McIrish.  I did the same thing...I sent the link to a friend and called the poster CrazyCakes.  Then felt *this big* after I did it.  She's obviously in need of help and my first instinct was to poke fun.  Not cool, cheeze, not cool.

     I have to tell everyone this is the exact reason why I love the 35+ boards...we have a bit of perspective.  Can you  imagine the sh!tstorm that would have caused on another board?

    I hope it is MUD but my gut is telling me it is for real.  

    ~Married 11/08~
    ~TTC since 01/09~
    ~SA & B/W - 06/09 - Normal~
    ~Encouraged by OB to "just keep trying" 06/09 - 06/10 (oh, the wasted time)~
    ~HSG - 08/10 - Clear/Normal~
    ~Lapo - 01/11 - Normal~
    ~Clomid 50mg, Trigger shot, Prometrium - 01/11, 02/11, 03/11~
    ~BFN - 02/11~
    ~IUI #1 03/15/11~
    BFP 3/28/2011
    Diagnosed with GD at 28 weeks. Controlled through diet and exercise. No insulin.
    Diagnosed with Cholestasis of pregnancy @ 36 weeks.
    Delivered via C-section @ 36 weeks on 11/9/11.

    TTC#2 for a few months naturally (ha!)
    ~IUI#1, Clomid, Trigger,  10/13 - BFN
    ~IUI#2, Femera, Ovidrel, 11/13




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  • Ok... I have to ask... What is MUD?
  • MUD = Made Up Drama

    FWIW, I hope this is MUD or I fear this woman is going to have a psychotic break when she learns the truth.

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  • Thanks for the clarification!

    I think you're right... its either MUD, or she's going to snap.

  • I hope she posts again after her appt.  I am really curious to know what the docs tell her and what she actually "hears". 
    Me: 40 Dh: 41, TTC since August 2009, began Acupuncture and Herbs Sept 2011, began Temping and Charting Nov 2011. image
  • imageELF4321:
    imageMrs.McIrish:
    imageELF4321:

    **ticker**

    She seems to have some serious mental health issues -- I hope one of the multitude of doctors she's been seeing is smart enough to pick up on that and get her some help. 

    I think you are right. At first I was thinking it was MUD but it really is sad if not. I shouldn't have even posted this.  I will call myself out for it.

    She's posted a few times before, back when she first thought she was pg, then when the doctor told her she was going through menopause and she was devastated, and now again when she's convinced herself that it's not really menopause after all.  I think it's legit, which is why I really hope she gets some help.  This strikes me as the kind of situation that could turn into one of those crazy people who steals someone else's baby or something if she doesn't get some help soon.  Wish the Bump had a "report to local mental health officials" button.

     I was thinking the same thing!!   Without appropriate support, IF can drive someone completely over the edge.  I hope that she gets some help.

  • Poor thing is crazy cakes. 
    IVF#1 May 2011 15 Eggs Retrieved, 11 Fertilized using ICSI + HPT on 6/9/11 Beta #1 420 Beta #2 2167 US 7/1 TWINS!! Due 2/18/2012 Brooke and Nora born at 35.6 weeks Jan 20th 2012
  • I totally think MUD. The whole thing is too far-fetched to be real.
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  • All I can say on this is wow.  And that the mind is an incredible thing.  My aunt had a m/c when i was younger, and then said she thought herself pregnant again. Even had a little bump.

    I do wonder about these doctors who keep postponing her tests. Just do the b/w already.

    Us: 39(me)/41(he). TTC since April '11. DOR/MFI. March '12: surgery to remove fibroids, cysts, and endometriosis.
    IVF #1: 9/13/12. ER: 9/25. 3R, 2M, 1F. ET: 9/28 (1-6B). Beta: moved from 10/11 to 10/10: BFN.
    IVF #2: 11/12 cycle postponed due to Sandy and then cancelled due to elevated E2.
    IVF #2.1 cancelled due to cyst.
    IVF #2.2: 2/2/13. Converted to IUI. BFN
    IVF #3.0: 3/2014. BCP & Microdose Lupron.  Cycle cancelled due to poor response.
    IVF #4.0: 2/2015. EPP @ new RE. ER: 3/8. 3R, 3M, 1F. ET: 3/11 (1-8cell). 3/23 Beta: 16.9. 3/25 Beta: 71.6. 3/27 Beta: 300. 3/29 Beta: 800 3/31 Beta: 1816. 4/1 Beta: 4342. m/c at 6w2d. Goodbye little one. I loved you already.
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    All I can say on this is wow.  And that the mind is an incredible thing.  My aunt had a m/c when i was younger, and then said she thought herself pregnant again. Even had a little bump.

    I do wonder about these doctors who keep postponing her tests. Just do the b/w already.

    Maybe there are no doctors and no tests. Maybe she has just convinced herself that they are postponing them, when in fact the do not exist. 

    Single Mother by Choice. Life didn't work out the way I planned so I did it on my own. IUI #s 1-3, unmedicated = BFN, IUI #s 4-6, 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel = BFN IVF #1: 23R, 20M, 17F. 5 day transfer 2 blasts. 2 Snowbabies BFP 6dp5dt, Beta #1 7dp5dt = 58, Beta #2 9dp5dt = 114, Beta #3 10dp5dt = 187 1st Ultrasound = 5/3, not much to see yet. 2nd Ultrasound = 5/17, TWINS!!! Hospital Bed Rest at 32 weeks due to pre-ecclampsia and severe edema. Audrey Grace, 5lbs9oz, & Lydia Louise, 6lbs, born via emergency c-section on 12/6/12 at 36w1d My IVF Journey
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    I thought the ladies over there were exceedingly nice, and I liked how lhcooper provided a link.  In response the original poster intimated that people like coop were part of the problem.  Definitely an odd situation.

    Pretty amazing, no? I don't know why I posted a response to her...I couldn't help myself, I guess.  I was as nice/gentle as I could find a way to be. I'm genuinely worried about her too, unless it is MUD....I'm just not sure! Glad you guys found it, though! I certainly wanted to share it....

    me - 41 (dx: DOR); DH - 53 (no problems); 7/18/09 - married!; 8/4/09 - BFP on first (real)try; 9/14/09 - missed m/c; 9/15/09 - d&c; 11/09 - 3/10 - 4 natural cycles = BFN; 4/10 - dx hyperthyroidism caused by Graves' disease; 6/10 - thyroidectomy; 7/10 - 12/10 - 1 natural and 5 medicated IUI cycles = BFN; 1/11 - new RE; dx low ovarian reserve (AMH .42; 1/26/11 -- BFP (ectopic) from IUI #6; methotrexate 2/10/11; 6/2/11 - IVF #1 = BFN; 9/12/11 - prescreening for DE; 9/15/11 - IUI #7 (unmedicated)= BFN; 11/8 - begin DE cycle (shared risk program); 12/5 - ER (5 eggs/4 mature/3 fertilized/2 left by day 5) 12/10 - ET of one 1BB blast (expanded, "fair" quality), none to freeze; 12/22 - totally shocked by +hpt; beta #1 = 413; #2 = 3952 2/14 - CVS reveals a healthy baby girl! EDD: 8/27/12 DD born 8/31/12, 10 lbs 10 oz and perfect in every way. 
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    i sadly dont think it is mud. and i agree with the others she may have something much more serious

    b/w=FSH 15.6, AMH 0.4 surprise natural BFP on 3/12/11
    DS born via unplanned C-section at 40w6d

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  • I have an IRL friend who became delusional last year, and was institutionalized. And, that's all I could think about when I read the OP. 
    TTC #1 since June 2010
    Me: 36, DH: 42
    Dx: DOR and MFI

    DH: low count + very low motility; hormones all normal; Sperm DNA Frag. test = poor to fair; male karyotyping normal
    Me: FSH 13.4 + AMH 0.26 + hypothyroidism; Scratch the hypothyrodism (?); Blood clotting and immune panel all negative; endometrial biopsy normal

    IVF #1 (MDLF - Jul/Aug 2011): BFN (9R, 5M, 3F with ICSI, 3dt of 1 10-cell grade 2, no frosties)
    IVF #2 (EP-antagonist - Sep/Oct 2011): BFN (6R, 4M, 3F w/ ICSI, 3dt of 1 6-cell, 1 7-cell, grade 4s, no frosties)
    DE IVF #1 (shared cycle - June 2012): c/p (6R, 6F w/ICSI, 3dt 1 8-cell grade A- and 1 7-cell grade A-; no frosties)
    DE IVF #2 (shared cycle with new donor - Nov/Dec/ 2012): - BFP!!!!! 12/14/12. U/S on 12/27 shows twins!!!!!

    SAIFW/PAIFW
  • I just read her post and wanted to cry. I feel for her but I do think there is something not right w/ her. Wow...I wonder if she'll post again. Would love to hear more but I really don't hold much stock in what she's posting at this point...it appears to be all in her head!
    TTC #1 since 2/10 Me 38 FSH 12.9 & AMH 0.16 DH 47, low sperm count due to meds. 07/11 We have sperm! 28 million, 70% motility, morphology 1% normal. 08/14/11 1st IUI unmedicated BFN. 09/11/11 2nd IUI w/ Femara + trigger BFN 10/14/11 trigger & Final IUI 10/16/11 BFN 10/21/11 Started acupuncture and loving it! 01/21 ET one embryo 6 cell grade C. Beta 02/02. BFN. Taking a much needed break. image
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