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What a roller coaster (TTC mentioned)

Petunia844Petunia844 member
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What an emotional roller coaster... this was my first cycle since Peyton was born, we weren't TTC because H felt like we could use some more time emotionally, and my Dr. encouraged us to wait another month... but all we were doing to avoid was not having sex around when I thought I would O (no charting or anything.)  We basically thought if it happened it would be meant to be, but next cycle we will TTC.  It really is probably for the best... to give my body and my heart more time to adjust, but I had no idea how upset I'd be on CD1.  I had all the stupid phantom symptoms, and my period was a few days later then I expected, but here it is.  I just need a hug, and to know that it's for the best. 
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Re: What a roller coaster (TTC mentioned)

  • Auki13Auki13 member
    (((HUGS)))  Even though we aren't trying I get upset every time I get my period.  I think its totally natural to feel that way.  I'm sorry you were disappointed, but glad that you will start TTC this upcoming cycle.  Good luck. :-)
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  • johnnys junejohnnys june member
    I can't tell you "it's for the best" because 1. Only you can knoe that and 2. Because it feels like "everything happens for a reason" which we know is not very comforting (even if true). I can tell you that I felt exactly.the.same.way! Take it one day at a time. And as hard as I know it will be...try to do things For yourself. It's so easy to get caught on the roller coaster ride that tosses you between grief and TTC and completely forget yourself. *hugs*
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  • pottermommypottermommy member
    huge hugs!!!
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  • ruthymusneyruthymusney member
    I have to tell myself it's for the best. You're def. not alone. Big hugs.
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  • roxyttandmeroxyttandme member
    (((hugs))) Hang in there hun. You are not alone. 
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  • lrichmond86lrichmond86 member
    Keeping my fingers crossed for you in the next cycle!  (hugs)
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  • AmyG2bAmyG2b member
    I'm glad your cycle is getting back on track. Mine still isn't. Hopefully it's only a matter of time for us all. Hugs. 
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  • CranangCranang member
    After Celeste was born on Halloween of 2010, I waited the 6 weeks to resume relations.  I remember the first time in December, how happy I was because at least we could try again.  Then I got my first period after her in January, and I was beyond sad.  I knew I probably needed more time, but it was a huge letdown emotionally.  I got my period again on February 3rd, and again, completely lost it.  Then I became pregnant that month.  I had faith that it would happen when it was right.  My doctor was none too happy with me for getting pregnant that quickly, but it was right for us.  It will happen when it is right but I know that emotional roller coaster that you're on right now.  ((HUGS))
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