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Apparently, I have a limit to how many sad days I have.

ruthymusneyruthymusney member
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DH just asked what was wrong with me. I just didnt say anything, he then said "seriously? Everyday?" whatever. I know he doesn't grieve the same way, but let me grieve. I'm having a tough time okay?
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  • lalaellaclalaellac member
    My ILs made us feel the same way when pg with our rainbow. I felt like punching them. Lots of hugs!
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  • AmyG2bAmyG2b member
    I'm sorry Ruthy. It's hard when you feel in a totally different place, I know. I felt it at first when we would argue about going out with our friends or to social events at the very beginning. I decided a long time ago I wasn't going to let myself hold it against my husband, because we both just grieve so differently. I do what I need to do, and he does the same. Hugs.
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  • pottermommypottermommy member

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    I'm sorry Ruthy. It's hard when you feel in a totally different place, I know. I felt it at first when we would argue about going out with our friends or to social events at the very beginning. I decided a long time ago I wasn't going to let myself hold it against my husband, because we both just grieve so differently. I do what I need to do, and he does the same. Hugs.

    This, I could not have said it better.  I am sorry you are feeling alone.  Hugs.

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  • Petunia844Petunia844 member
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    imageAmyG2b:
    I'm sorry Ruthy. It's hard when you feel in a totally different place, I know. I felt it at first when we would argue about going out with our friends or to social events at the very beginning. I decided a long time ago I wasn't going to let myself hold it against my husband, because we both just grieve so differently. I do what I need to do, and he does the same. Hugs.

    This, I could not have said it better.  I am sorry you are feeling alone.  Hugs.

    I agree, he's probably just worried about you and doesn't know how to express it.  Hugs. 

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  • Mjmksb04Mjmksb04 member
    Its so tough when you both grieve differently. Right after we lost DD, H was worried about me for being so depressed, but I think I was having a normal reaction.
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  • foxxy1foxxy1 member

    imageAmyG2b:
    I'm sorry Ruthy. It's hard when you feel in a totally different place, I know. I felt it at first when we would argue about going out with our friends or to social events at the very beginning. I decided a long time ago I wasn't going to let myself hold it against my husband, because we both just grieve so differently. I do what I need to do, and he does the same. Hugs.

    Couldn't have said it better. I'm so sorry you're going through this, Ruthy. *hugs*  

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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    Big (((HUGS)))
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  • starrkitten89starrkitten89
    Big ((hugs)).

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  • samakasrcsamakasrc member
    My BF and I have a similar problem, except its that we don't realize that the other person is having a down day causing their crabbiness... I hope we'll get better at this...
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