We just confirmed we are Team Blue and we're finally getting serious about names. We have a very long, Italian last name, so here are my criteria for names:
- Not too common/popular, but not "weird."
- Timeless- not something a kid is going to grow out of
- Not too long or two many syllables.
- Doesn't end in a hard C or K sound (as that's what our last name starts with)
So, essentially Owen meets all of my criteria (and is FIL's middle name). But I just don't LOVE it. However, I can't come up with anything I really love.
DS is Bennett (and we always call him Ben), which I adored. So, this one just isn't quite as easy.
Talk me into Owen (as DH really likes it) and I want it to grow on me. FWIW, it would probably be Owen Michael (Michael is DH's middle name)
How do Ben (Bennett) and Owen work together?
I also feel bad that DS#1's middle name is a DH family name and now DS#2 will have a first and middle DH family name. But my family has terrible names that I really don't like. And call me superficial, but it's more important to me to give my kids "good" names than to use a family name I hate.
Re: Talk to me about the name "Owen"
I like Owen and it goes well with Ben. Try using it out a bit more and see how you feel about it. DH also was the final say on our name choice (Garrett). I liked it but loved a few other names he vetoed so I used Garrett a bit and the more I used it the better it fit.
Other names that may fit your criteria are Ryan, Owen, Grant (this was my fave that DH said no to), Gavin, Drew (DHs fave until a friend named used it for his son)....good luck!
I love Owen! One of my friends actually has an Owen and Ben and they go really well together.
I think using Owen in honor of your FIL is a great idea.
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My nephew is Owen. It's an adorable name, but will also translate well into his older years. I'm sure people will start calling him "O" by high school. I think Owne and Ben are fine together - the different syllables make it less rhymey.
As for the family names thing - I doubt your kids will even notice and while your family would probably appreciate a family name, I doubt they will really care or judge you for it. With my brother's kids, they all have family names from my side...okay...that doesn't help...I win on that one...but I really don't think my SIL's family cares.
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Owen is NMS. I think there are better choices out there that go with Bennett.
I will say if my husband's name wasn't "Ben" I would totally steal the idea of "Bennett" LOVE that name. :-)
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We are struggling with Irish boy names, I love Luam-but dh said no. do you have any othe Irish names you had thought of I suggested Jameson and Connor.
Interesting. On the SS name list for 2010 it ranges from 40-something to 90-something (depending if you look by national or our state). I hear it a lot on the Bump, but not in real life. I wouldn't consider that too popular, but perhaps it will gain in popularity soon???
That was my impression too. Nobody that we know has that name and when we tell people we are naming him Owen, they say that they don't hear that name very often. If you like it, go for it
love Owen! Go for it!
Irish boys names- i like Neil, Callum, Jamie, Shane