I think pregnancy killed my sex appeal. We have been intimate (with our clothes off) ONCE since I started showing. Because of a complication with the baby during pregnancy I was told by doctors to stop ALL activity at week 30. ...Instead we stopped at week 25 (the one and only time after I started showing a bump).
The birthing process didn't do much to turn my husband on. Neither did the giant boobs when my milk came in. ...The leaking and squirting of milk didn't tickle his fancy either, strangely enough.
The combo of me being healthy duing pregnancy, delivering a tiny baby, nursing, and working out after delivery has helped me lose all my baby fat PLUS some AND my cup size went up, but the hubby still ain't horny.
It's been 9 months since I delivered the baby and 12 months since our last intimate night with each other... not that I'm counting or anything. How do you rekindle the romance? Or do I just need to enjoy this "time off" and realize that our relationship is fine without the sex?