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feeling ignored (vent)

misteezagirlmisteezagirl member
in TTC After a Loss
so there should have been 2 of us pregnant at work and due within 2 weeks of each other and 2 of us in the family also 2 weeks within each other.  Just because i am no longer pregnant does not mean you just ignore me and pretend i wasn't ever pregnant and talk to the other pregnant person in front of me and then when you realize you are talking to a pregnant person in front of the person who is no longer pregnant you act like I am not even in the room.  Maybe i'd like to be comforted and just asked how i'm doing sometimes, just sayin! 
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  • VikingQueenVikingQueen member
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  • RedRose84RedRose84
    Ugh, some people only care about themselves.  I'm sorry you're feeling ignored.  **Hugs**
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  • Miranda0921Miranda0921
    I'm sorry your going through this. My family was a lot of the same way. It was like nothing ever happened after. I mc on my birthday and my dad didn't want to call me to even tell me happy birthday because he didn't know what to say, I wasn't mad about it but it would have been nice to have gotten that call.
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  • missbrynmissbryn member
    I'm sorry. It seems like a lot of people think past miscarriages are "over," and that the mother just moves on or something. They totally don't get this ongoing pain.
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  • AmKaSawAmKaSaw

    (((HUGS)))  I'm so sorry you have to deal with this at work AND in your family...

    I was feeling the same way tonight, everybody was gushing over DH's cousin's baby, and nobody even asked me how I was doing or said a damn thing about our loss...I think that most people feel like saying "I'm sorry for your loss" one time covers it, and if they don't make the 1 month mark, well, they might as well not say anything at all because we should've moved past it by now or something.  :(

    Well.

    I'm so sorry for your loss.  You are important, and so is what you're going through, and it is no less important than somebody who's pregnant....you don't deserve to be ignored.  (((HUG)))

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