Those shows blow my mind. I hadn't even held hands until I was nearly 18! (Happily married to him too LOL.) I know that's way out of the norm, especially for the area I'm from. Girls in middle school were having sex.
I was way, way, outside of the norm myself. Maybe if any boys in high school actually held my interest, I would have been a Prom night slut. Who knows? But I'm not even sure I had the notion of intercourse locked in when I was like 11. That's BSC.
The idea of sex was so foreign to me when I was 11-14! I don't think I really knew what it was at that age. How the hell could kids that age handle all the implications?
I can't get the ticker to work, but I have two sons:
I ended up having sex days before my 16 birthday. All of my friends had already had sex or had been active for years. We were also in a small, private Baptist school so it was a largely rebellious thing. I can't speak for the public school's ratio by age.
Anyhow, sex didn't become frequent or even particularly fun until I was closer to 18. I wish I had waited.
Once my parents caught wind of sexual activity, I was put on Depo-Provera so chances of pregnancy were pretty slim until adult-hood.
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I was convinced i would be a virgin until i was married until one day in high school i saw this boy and just KNEW he was going to be the one- I am very weird in that way.... i wanted to wait until I was 16- began dating him at 15.
As a freshman in high school i was dumped bcz i was too 'prude' how was i supposed to know i was supposed to give a bj until he... well u know LOL.
My little sister is 14... she has been having sex for months now. I FINALLy convinced her to get on BC with threatening to tell her mother (we are half sibs). It makes me sad...... our youth are so far beyond their age it just doesn't seem fair.
I am gonna put my buisness out there...I am in the 11-14 category only because I lost my virginity at 14 when I was raped....I am sure that I would've stayed a virgin for a while longer if things had been different...
I'm one of the other freaks of nature who was a couple weeks from 22 when it happened. Wanted to wait until marriage - but liked my now hubby too much at the time to wait. Sad for those of you who didn't have a choice in the matter and that something was taken from you without your assent.
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<-----------------18 year old prom statistic! I was pretty naive before then. I actually thought a blow job was something you got at the hair salon until I was about 15 and one of my friends explained what it was.
<-----------------18 year old prom statistic! I was pretty naive before then. I actually thought a blow job was something you got at the hair salon until I was about 15 and one of my friends explained what it was.
Lol, I'm so glad there were others. I never knew why everyone cheered and yelled on the bus as we passed mile marker 69 on trips. Had to ask my best friend.
A few days before my 14th birthday. It was a self esteem thing. Afraid that if I said no then he wouldn't like me so I just went along with it. He was 16 and I just thought that was soooo cool.
I was 18 and it was after high school ended. I was pretty much the last of my friends to have sex, the rest were doing it in HS. I moved to FL when I was 12 and in 6th grade. Where I came from I was still in elementary school but when I came to FL 6th was middle school. There were a lot of people having sex already and I was shocked.
When I actually decided to have my first sexual experience on my own terms...I was 19... and I still thought that was too early ...haha
It's a shame how many of us are out there...They say one in four...well, in my group of friends we have about 6 girls and its happened to 5 of us....I think one in four will report it. Just breaks my heart how frequently it happens.
Maybe I'm the crazy one....but "loving" as teen wasn't enjoyable AT ALL. I think most girls are doing it just because everyone else is doing it. I never understood why my parents always said, "If I knew then what I know now". Such a true statement.
I guess I'm one of the oddballs. I was married and it was both of our first time. I was 20; I guess we figured things out quickly because I was pregnant 8 months later.
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My first time was when I was 18, it was the summer after I graduated high school. I always thought that I would wait until I was married, but I had already done everything else, so it seemed silly not to just go for it.
This is so interesting to me....breaks my heart that there are those that have regrets on their first time, for whatever reason, but especially if it was taken from you.
Uh, I'm an idiot so I voted wrong. I voted for when I got my period. Take one off of 11-14 and put it on 21 lol.
That's what I voted for too... Didn't get my period til 15 but then lost my virginity at 17 to my husband.
Okay, so NOBODY actually chose to have sex in that bracket. 2 "oops, I meant I got my period" and 1 not by choice. Ok, feeling a bit better about parenting a kid in this millenium now, as far as 11 years old not being sexually prevalent.
Since everyone else shared, I guess I'll gush. I was 21. My Spring Break from college; he had graduated. (So this was when we lived 1100 miles away and saw each other every 2-3 months.) It was husband; we were each others' first. We had done everything BUT intercourse, and it honestly just kinda happened without any fanfare. On the one hand, it felt perfectly natural, but I sorta wish we had made a bigger deal out of it. acknowledged it. something. We had both been "waiters", and all of a sudden, it was okay to let it go. I mean, we are married now.
Uh, I'm an idiot so I voted wrong. I voted for when I got my period. Take one off of 11-14 and put it on 21 lol.
That's what I voted for too... Didn't get my period til 15 but then lost my virginity at 17 to my husband.
Okay, so NOBODY actually chose to have sex in that bracket. 2 "oops, I meant I got my period" and 1 not by choice. Ok, feeling a bit better about parenting a kid in this millenium now, as far as 11 years old not being sexually prevalent.
Alright, I'll fess up here. Not proud of this AT ALL. But I had sex by choice at 13. To a loser guy who I thought at the time was the coolest guy. I went through this rebel phase in 8th grade, starting drinking, smoked pot, etc... and sex was one of those things. It wasn't multiple partners, just one, but I did it. I did have a good sense to get birth control before from planned parenthood and didn't need my parent's consent. Therefore, didn't think I needed my parent's consent to have sex either. I thought I was a complete grown up at that age.
June 2012 Mom (2.5 yr old boy), July 2015
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My husband and I got married this past June, and I was 22 (He is 28). We saved everything (even our first kiss) for marriage. Like a PP poster said, we obviously figured it out just fine because I got pregnant 2 months later.
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I ended up having sex days before my 16 birthday. All of my friends had already had sex or had been active for years. We were also in a small, private Baptist school so it was a largely rebellious thing. I can't speak for the public school's ratio by age.
Anyhow, sex didn't become frequent or even particularly fun until I was closer to 18. I wish I had waited.
Once my parents caught wind of sexual activity, I was put on Depo-Provera so chances of pregnancy were pretty slim until adult-hood.
I was convinced i would be a virgin until i was married until one day in high school i saw this boy and just KNEW he was going to be the one- I am very weird in that way.... i wanted to wait until I was 16- began dating him at 15.
As a freshman in high school i was dumped bcz i was too 'prude' how was i supposed to know i was supposed to give a bj until he... well u know LOL.
My little sister is 14... she has been having sex for months now. I FINALLy convinced her to get on BC with threatening to tell her mother (we are half sibs). It makes me sad...... our youth are so far beyond their age it just doesn't seem fair.
Taken from me... way too young.
When I actually decided to have my first sexual experience on my own terms...I was 19... and I still thought that was too early ...haha
Yeah, I kinda wondered if some of the younger ones were maybe not by choice.
but this poll's silver lining is the blatant need to have the talk at age 10. I would have probably assumed 15 or 16, but that looks a bit too late.
<-----------------18 year old prom statistic! I was pretty naive before then. I actually thought a blow job was something you got at the hair salon until I was about 15 and one of my friends explained what it was.
The middle school I went to there were usually 2 or 3 pregnant girls usually 7th graders each year. It's sad, but it happens alot I guess now a days!
Lol, I'm so glad there were others. I never knew why everyone cheered and yelled on the bus as we passed mile marker 69 on trips. Had to ask my best friend.
It's a shame how many of us are out there...They say one in four...well, in my group of friends we have about 6 girls and its happened to 5 of us....I think one in four will report it. Just breaks my heart how frequently it happens.
Okay, so NOBODY actually chose to have sex in that bracket. 2 "oops, I meant I got my period" and 1 not by choice. Ok, feeling a bit better about parenting a kid in this millenium now, as far as 11 years old not being sexually prevalent.
Alright, I'll fess up here. Not proud of this AT ALL. But I had sex by choice at 13. To a loser guy who I thought at the time was the coolest guy. I went through this rebel phase in 8th grade, starting drinking, smoked pot, etc... and sex was one of those things. It wasn't multiple partners, just one, but I did it. I did have a good sense to get birth control before from planned parenthood and didn't need my parent's consent. Therefore, didn't think I needed my parent's consent to have sex either. I thought I was a complete grown up at that age.