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Been POAS and negative at 9dp3dt

happywifemomofonehappywifemomofone member
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Is there any hope for this cycle ladies?  I am starting to get really bummed, as I was thinking that my BFP is coming-and that stupid second line just won't appear on my FRER.  I googled around and with my ER/ET date-implantation should have been complete on 12-26.  I gave up on the strips because I didn't know if I was reading them right-and they looked +, but then I took a digi and got a BFN.  I'm really feeling bummed-and need others to please tell me that it's still early.   My Beta isn't until Friday, and this has been the longest 2ww ever.  Beginning to process that this IS the end of the road for us and I might not get the happy ending that I was hoping for.  DE are not an option because we cann't afford it.  What can I do from here?  I don't even qualify for the Child Free Not by choice board Sad
TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
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Re: Been POAS and negative at 9dp3dt

  • AdiAdi

    I'm no expert in IVF, but I would say that they schedule the betas on specific days for a reason.I wouldn't lose hope until either AF shows, or they tell you its a BFP, especially if this is your last shot.

    Fingers crossed for you sweetie!

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  • owlprofowlprof member
    I'm no expert and don't have any advice, but I wanted to wish you lots of luck in the next few days.  I know this whole process has been hard, with the waiting the hardest part  (just like Tom Petty says).  Hang in there!
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  • Mrs.McIrishMrs.McIrish member
    I have absolutely heard stories where the second line didn't show up until 14dpo.  I will keep my fingers crossed for you hon.  Hang in there. 

    TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
    DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
    5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
    OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
    DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
    DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
    CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
    DE IVF #3 1/14  ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d

    DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
    First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!

    K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days

    imageimage

    SAIF/PAIF Welcome


    http://waitingforraintostop.wordpress.com

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  • njpabzynjpabzy member
    I am really hoping that it is just too early to test positive. I want this to be your BFP. Hang in there and know that many are thinking of you and praying. Smile
    M-43 DOR (FSH 20 AMH 0.16, AFC 4-6) Endo stage III DH-42 (low everything)
    TTC #1 unofficially since 6/09, officially since 10/10
    6/11 RE testing,rt tube blocked with hydro, 8/11 lap surgery rt tl
    IVF#1 10/11 Estrace,450 Follistim, 15 units low-dose HCG, DHEA - cancelled (only follie growing)
    IVF#2 started stims 11/4/11 - same protocol, increase in concentration of HCG, added CoQ10, no response, cancelled on CD 12
    12/2/11 began accupuncture; Break in Dec. Next cycle anticipated in Jan.
    PAIF/SAIF Welcome
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  • happywifemomofonehappywifemomofone member
    imagehijoi:

    SIGGY WARNING

    Please forgive me for posting, but I wanted to respond to your post.  When I got my positive, it was at 15 dpo.  At 17 dpo, I still got a negative on the digital, even with FMU.  At 5 weeks, when I was at the doctor's office, their test said negative. My betas were too low for the digi to pick up.  Keep on hoping. Sometimes it's the only thing we've got. Best of luck to you, as always.

    No need to apologize for posting-I consider our graduates to be part of our group........just wish it wasn't so hard to join you all!

    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
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  • MelleTXMelleTX member
    9dp3dt is only 12 dpo and still early for a +HPT. If they implanted yesterday, it's only been one day - not long enough for the hormone to appear in your urine.  Doesn't it normally take 2-3 days after implantation for the urine to pick up the hormone?  Hang in there - you are not done yet.
    Single Mother by Choice. Life didn't work out the way I planned so I did it on my own. IUI #s 1-3, unmedicated = BFN, IUI #s 4-6, 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel = BFN IVF #1: 23R, 20M, 17F. 5 day transfer 2 blasts. 2 Snowbabies BFP 6dp5dt, Beta #1 7dp5dt = 58, Beta #2 9dp5dt = 114, Beta #3 10dp5dt = 187 1st Ultrasound = 5/3, not much to see yet. 2nd Ultrasound = 5/17, TWINS!!! Hospital Bed Rest at 32 weeks due to pre-ecclampsia and severe edema. Audrey Grace, 5lbs9oz, & Lydia Louise, 6lbs, born via emergency c-section on 12/6/12 at 36w1d My IVF Journey
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  • happywifemomofonehappywifemomofone member

    imageMelleTX:
    9dp3dt is only 12 dpo and still early for a +HPT. If they implanted yesterday, it's only been one day - not long enough for the hormone to appear in your urine.  Doesn't it normally take 2-3 days after implantation for the urine to pick up the hormone?  Hang in there - you are not done yet.

    Did some googling on how soon after implantation you can get a BFP when you POAS.  2-3 days is right on the money.  Fingers crossed-and prayers out that there's still hope for me.  Very discouraging though when I read about others with their BFP at 9dp3dt.  This waiting is sucking the energy out of me and I just want to POAS every time I go to bathroom, hoping for the slightest second line!

    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
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  • winidpuwinidpu
    I do hope this is YOUR cycle and you are just testing too early...don't give up hope just yet. Hang in and there and keep us posted.
    TTC #1 since 2/10 Me 38 FSH 12.9 & AMH 0.16 DH 47, low sperm count due to meds. 07/11 We have sperm! 28 million, 70% motility, morphology 1% normal. 08/14/11 1st IUI unmedicated BFN. 09/11/11 2nd IUI w/ Femara + trigger BFN 10/14/11 trigger & Final IUI 10/16/11 BFN 10/21/11 Started acupuncture and loving it! 01/21 ET one embryo 6 cell grade C. Beta 02/02. BFN. Taking a much needed break. image
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  • mtlaurelmtlaurel
    Definitely could still be too early. Even if you're losing hope, the rest of us will stay positive for you. Hang in there!
    TTC #1 since June 2010
    Me: 36, DH: 42
    Dx: DOR and MFI

    DH: low count + very low motility; hormones all normal; Sperm DNA Frag. test = poor to fair; male karyotyping normal
    Me: FSH 13.4 + AMH 0.26 + hypothyroidism; Scratch the hypothyrodism (?); Blood clotting and immune panel all negative; endometrial biopsy normal

    IVF #1 (MDLF - Jul/Aug 2011): BFN (9R, 5M, 3F with ICSI, 3dt of 1 10-cell grade 2, no frosties)
    IVF #2 (EP-antagonist - Sep/Oct 2011): BFN (6R, 4M, 3F w/ ICSI, 3dt of 1 6-cell, 1 7-cell, grade 4s, no frosties)
    DE IVF #1 (shared cycle - June 2012): c/p (6R, 6F w/ICSI, 3dt 1 8-cell grade A- and 1 7-cell grade A-; no frosties)
    DE IVF #2 (shared cycle with new donor - Nov/Dec/ 2012): - BFP!!!!! 12/14/12. U/S on 12/27 shows twins!!!!!

    SAIFW/PAIFW
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  • happywifemomofonehappywifemomofone member

    imagemtlaurel:
    Definitely could still be too early. Even if you're losing hope, the rest of us will stay positive for you. Hang in there!

    Thanks.....I'm discouraged and appreciate everyone trying to stay positive. 

    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
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  • Mrs.McIrishMrs.McIrish member
    imagehappywifemomofone:

    imagemtlaurel:
    Definitely could still be too early. Even if you're losing hope, the rest of us will stay positive for you. Hang in there!

    Thanks.....I'm discouraged and appreciate everyone trying to stay positive. 

    Did you test this morning?

    TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
    DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
    5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
    OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
    DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
    DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
    CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
    DE IVF #3 1/14  ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d

    DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
    First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!

    K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days

    imageimage

    SAIF/PAIF Welcome


    http://waitingforraintostop.wordpress.com

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  • happywifemomofonehappywifemomofone member
    Yep, another BFNSad  When I did get my BFP in October the only day I tested positive was the day of my Beta.  I think that I would prefer a BFN to a c/p again.  Today is 10dp3dt (13dpo), not looking good.  But, I wouldn't say that a + Beta is out of the question-time will tell.
    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
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  • Bubs711Bubs711
    Praying that Friday brings you better news!
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  • MelleTXMelleTX member

    imagehappywifemomofone:
    Yep, another BFNSad  When I did get my BFP in October the only day I tested positive was the day of my Beta.  I think that I would prefer a BFN to a c/p again.  Today is 10dp3dt (13dpo), not looking good.  But, I wouldn't say that a + Beta is out of the question-time will tell.

    It's not over - I have not started singing yet.  Hang in there sweetie. Praying for good news for you on Friday. 

    Single Mother by Choice. Life didn't work out the way I planned so I did it on my own. IUI #s 1-3, unmedicated = BFN, IUI #s 4-6, 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel = BFN IVF #1: 23R, 20M, 17F. 5 day transfer 2 blasts. 2 Snowbabies BFP 6dp5dt, Beta #1 7dp5dt = 58, Beta #2 9dp5dt = 114, Beta #3 10dp5dt = 187 1st Ultrasound = 5/3, not much to see yet. 2nd Ultrasound = 5/17, TWINS!!! Hospital Bed Rest at 32 weeks due to pre-ecclampsia and severe edema. Audrey Grace, 5lbs9oz, & Lydia Louise, 6lbs, born via emergency c-section on 12/6/12 at 36w1d My IVF Journey
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