A very, very dear friend who was like a second mother to me passed away this September. Her name was Barbara. Would using Barbara, with the nn Barbie, be silly?
It's not my favorite and I really hate Barbara but if you're OK with saddling your girl with that, at least it's a legit name. Barbara is just so ugly sounding to me.
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I don't like Barbara, but if you did choose it to honor your friend, how about just calling her Barb? Barbie makes me think of the doll. And a bimbo (at the risk of sounding rude.)
I agree with the PPs... I like Barb as a nn better than Barbie and I think Barbara makes a better middle name than a first name. We are using my grandmother's name as a middle name because I really wanted to honor her but didn't think her name made a great first name.
I have a cousin named Barbara that went by Barbie for a long time. As she grew older, she changed it to Barb. I think it was a hard nn for her to break around family. I'm pretty sure my mom still calls her Barbie out of habit. Said cousin is in her mid 30's now.
I'm not a huge fan of the nn Barbie (or Babs, for that matter), but I really like Barbara. Every Barbara I've ever known has been a really strong, awesome woman and I also like the imagery of St. Barbara (although the Church disowned her during Vatican II, sadly).
I have two aunts named Barbara. One goes by Barbi, the other goes by Barb. I think it is a classic, underused name that is still professional sounding.
I went to high school with twins named Catherine and Barbara, Cathy and Barbie for short. Barbie was a total athlete and tomboy, but it totally fit her. I think it's fine. I'm not a huge fan of the name, but if it's special to you, go for it.
I'm sorry but if you name your daughter Barbie, it just seems like she's going to have psychological issues associated with the doll the minute she finds even a single flaw in herself. Plus, just imagine the things the other girls will say to her at school or daycare:
Barbara has really grown on me this past year. It is pretty and underused.
I'm not a big fan of Barbie or Barb but of the two I think I like Barbie better. Barb seems too blunt for me. Barbie could evolve into Barbara once she is in high school etc.
Re: Barbie- too cheesy?
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I don't mind Barbara, but I really, really dislike the nickname Barbie (the doll is NOT going away!).
ETA - I think it would make a better middle name than first name.
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I don't like either but I think Barbie is kind of terrible. Is there any variation of Barbara? Bobbie or Bebe maybe?
I think your best bet is to use Barbara as a middle name.
I'm sorry but if you name your daughter Barbie, it just seems like she's going to have psychological issues associated with the doll the minute she finds even a single flaw in herself. Plus, just imagine the things the other girls will say to her at school or daycare:
"Why don't you look like the doll?" Ect....
Barbara has really grown on me this past year. It is pretty and underused.
I'm not a big fan of Barbie or Barb but of the two I think I like Barbie better. Barb seems too blunt for me. Barbie could evolve into Barbara once she is in high school etc.