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niracess27niracess27
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
After writing and then deleting this post over and over again, there is no way I can write it to make me feel better. We had a m/c on Christmas Day. We were out of town away my OB. I am scheduled to go in today but I don't know if I am ready. I thought I was fine, I have been blessed with two beautiful babies already but today now that we are back home and back to our routines I just lost it. I don't know if it's because I really hadn't allowed myself to really cry. 
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  • newly_nauglernewly_naugler
    I'm sorry your here hon. It's a rough road for everyone. Let yourself time to grieve and cry when you want. It does help to get it out. The ladies on this board are great at understanding and answering any questions you may have. My thoughts are with you.
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  • mil23mil23
    It's ok to let yourself have a good hard cry.  I tried for a week to almost pretend it wasn't happening and just make everything ok.  Eventually everything caught up with me and it felt good to just let it all out.  So sorry you have to go through this :(  Thinking of you and your family.
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  • nikkid917nikkid917 member
    I am so sorry!  We, too lost our baby this past weekend on Christmas Eve.  It comes in waves and sometimes I feel ok because I feel so blessed with my beautiful daughter, but at other times I lose it.  It will take time to heal.  I am thinking of you today!
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  • lau1021lau1021 member
    sorry for your loss :( - its ok to let yourself cry, don't let anyone tell you what is a normal amount of time to grieve. Take care of yourself and stop by often - this board is wonderful! ((HUGS))
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  • Malka7997Malka7997
    I am so sorry for your loss. It is a rough road when one second you think you can handle this and everything will be ok to the next second where you are uncontrollably sobbing. It has been 3 wks for me and I still find myself crying at times. However, each day I sob a little less and smile a little more. (((HUGS)))
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  • pinktrojanbride120107pinktrojanbride120107 member
    Sorry that you had to join this board as well.  I have definitely been pushing some feelings aside, but it's helping so much to just let the tears flow as they come.  I hope you find comfort soon.
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  • prolixityprolixity member
    I miscarried our third baby/pregnancy last Friday. I understand feeling so grateful for your healthy children but grieving the lost pregnancy. I'm so sorry that we're all here. :(
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  • tatercatertatercater member
    I'm so sorry for your loss... and so sorry it happened on Christmas.  Allow yourself a little time to grieve and recover.  I'll be thinking of you.
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  • karenczkarencz member
    I'm very sorry for your loss and very sorry that it had to happen on Christmas of all days. Everyone here will listen and support you. It's not fair when happens in your 1st, 2nd, 3rd, etc. pregnancies. Big ((hugs)).

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  • RedRose84RedRose84
    I'm so very sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.  I hope you find love, support, and comfort here.  **Hugs**
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  • panacea05panacea05 member
    Grieving is a process, and tears are definitely a big part of it. You've just suffered a tragedy, so it's only normal to bawl your eyes out. I'm so sorry for your loss. {hugs}
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
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