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SIL prego

krissywavekrissywave member
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I was trying to get through this year with no more pain, hurt and whats nots. Last night we had dinner at my IL's since I had to work all day Christmas.  After dinner DH and I was talking to my SIL and her SO.  SIL (J) So sliped and said that my other SIL (C) is prego about 6 weeks.  She let everyone know at Christmas Eve Dinner.  I just felt like I have been punched in the stomach.  

6 weeks ago is when we lost our baby.  6 weeks is how far along she is.  SIL (C) is the biggest joke.  They used to live in a family house where they didnt have to pay rent just the electric ect type of bills.  So they move and now they have rent and all the other bill and can't pay it.  My FIL give my SIL (C) money so they get by.  She is a back stabber, lier, and a spoiled brat who is now Pregnant.  Think this is just more salt to pour into the cut.

Come on 2012 I am just so ready for this year to be over! 

April 10 IUI BFN Sept 10 IUI BRN Feb 11 IVF hoping for a BFP! Feb 27 ER 28 eggs Mar 4 8 health eggs, 2 ET Mar 17 - Beta 180!! BFP!!! Mar 21 - Beta 1295!! holy cow what a jump Coming soon 1st Sono March 30!!! Crossing fingers for healthy stick bean(s) Mar 29 miscarry :( 6w 3d 2nd IVF July 2011 BFP July 2011 M/C 11/11/11 hate to say good bye again! Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 3rd IVF 4/3/12 ER 46 eggs (holly cow batman) 40 mature, 36 fertilized 4/8/12 ET 2 AB put back 4/10/12 15 make it to FREEZE 4/22/12 Beta BFN 1st FET 6/7/12 Day we are going to put back 2. 6/21/12 BFP 1285 6/25/12 4780 I hope this time they stick!! Deaglan William welcome. My rainbow is finally here February 7, 2013
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  • NicoleD54NicoleD54

    I can't imagine the hurt. I've actually had dreams my sil has announced her pregnancy. I believe they were about to start trying right before my loss, so I'm just waiting for the announcement. I know I will be crushed when they do get pregnant. I'm sorry baby loss and infertility are not fair. Hugs.

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  • mrsbarriermrsbarrier
    I am so sorry for your loss. None of this seems fair, at all.  My sister and I were pregnant at the same time. I was due April 27, 2012 and she is due May 27, 2012. This is my sister and BIL first child. My sister was not very excited when she found out she was expecting. She was by my side when we lost our Zoe and she said our baby girl changed her life. She said my princess changed her whole outlook on life. She realized how much of a gift being a mother is. She didn't want to give her lifestyle and her "freedom" but seeing her niece and holding her before she went to heaven changed everything. While this pain we feel is immense, my beautiful girl changed her aunt's whole perspective on life. I can only thank God for allowing me to carry her and love her for the 22 weeks and 3 days she was in my womb. 
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