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TTC After a Loss
poohbear033
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Update to my negative nancy post.
poohbear033
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I thought today would be better but it is not. Last night DH and I had a huge fight, my cousin called and I refused to talk to him, basically I was told that I ruined Christmas for the family. DH ended up sleeping on the couch and this morning he won't even talk to me, I tried to give him a hug and he wouldn't let me. So here I am back in bed alone, feeling miserable. No wonder everyone hates me and I feel like I have no friends, I must really be a terrible person.
Wedding 08/08/08
BFP #1 12/29/10 EDD 08/29/11 Blighted Ovum 02/09/11 D&C 02/11/11
Clomid 50mg BFP #2 09/21/11 EDD 05/29/11 Chemical Pregnancy 10/4/11
BFP #3 4/19/13 Beta1- 106 Beta2- 524 Beta3- 3500 EDD 12/22/13 LO born 12/31/13
BFP #1 12/29/10 EDD 08/29/11 Blighted Ovum 02/09/11 D&C 02/11/11
Clomid 50mg BFP #2 09/21/11 EDD 05/29/11 Chemical Pregnancy 10/4/11
BFP #3 4/19/13 Beta1- 106 Beta2- 524 Beta3- 3500 EDD 12/22/13 LO born 12/31/13
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Re: Update to my negative nancy post.
BFP #1 07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
TTA for 7 months
Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
TTC Again May 2014
Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles - All BFN's
SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results
Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
My Blog: The Canadian Housewife PGAL/PAL Welcome My Chart
You are not a terrible person. All of our emotions are wonky and nobody can understand what we are going through (besides each other).
I hope you feel better soon! (((HUGS)))
BFP#2 ~ 8/2/11, EDD 4/11/12, D&C 9/12/11 at 9w5d
BFP#3 ~ 4/15/12, EDD 12/21/12 ~ DD born 12/22/12
BFP #1 ~ EDD 5.20.2012 ~ MC 10.1.2011
BFP #2 ~ EDD 11.15.2012 ~ CP 3.7.2012
BFP #3 ~ DS born 12.03.2012
FF Chart
You are not a terrible person at all. I'm sorry that you're having to deal with all this right now.
(((HUGS)))
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TTC Baby Rob #1 05/07, BFP 06/07, EDD 02/22/08, Baby Jackaroo born via c-section after 22 hours of labor on 02/27/08
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TTC Baby Rob #2 06/11 BFP 11/06/11 EDD 07/16/12 Natural M/C 11/25/11 @ 6w3d
Baby Rob #2 (Sloane), in our hearts always.
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Here comes Baby Rob #3
BFP on Cycle 17 09/27/12. EDD 06/04/12! Please Stick Baby! A/S 01/22/13 Baby looking great. Officially TEAM BLUE! Jack is getting a Baby Brother! RCS scheduled for 05/29/13. William Daryll born at 9:59am on 05/29/13. Left ovary and tube removed due to peach sized tumor found during RCS. Pathology came back benign!
You aren't a terrible person. You are someone who has had something TERRIBLE happen to you and this is what happens, people's emotions get bigger and deeper.
Your husband knows now that you are ready to discuss and move on, so even though he is upset now, knowing this, he will probably be ready to talk VERY soon.
I hope it gets better for you!
You are not a terrible person! There are many times that your posts have put a smile on my face!
Keep your head up and the days will get better!
You are a good, kind, sweet person. You are NOT terrible.
I hope your day gets better.
I am sorry, ((hugs)).
BFP #1- 11/7/10 ~EDD 7/20/11 ~M/C (bo) 12/6/10 @ 8wks ~Missing my Little Firework
BFP #2- 9/11/11 ~EDD 5/25/12 ~M/C (mmc10w)11/4/11 @ 11wks ~Missing my May Flower
BFP #3- 02/21/12 ~EDD 11/1/12 Audrey Lee Born 11/4/2012
BFP #4 ~EDD 6/20/14 stick baby stick!
Chin up sweetie. You're not terrible. People even husbands sometimes don't understand how we are feeling. You lost a baby... Its something terrible that happened to all of us.
Sleep in. Grab you a hot Starbucks. And let your hubs know you want to talk once he's home.
Heres hoping to a better day ahead for you.
BFP #1: 8/2011 ** EDD: 5/9/2012 ** Missed m/c discovered at 13 weeks
BFP #2: 4/4/2012 ** EDD: 12/24/12 ** Born: Charlotte "Charlie" Olivia 12/18/2013, 8 lbs 1 oz, 21 inches!!!
After 7 years of no ovulation...
BFP#1 10/24/11 ~ EDD 6/29/12 ~ Natural m/c 11/2/11
BFP#2 2/3/12 ~ Alice born 9/26/12
I'm sorry you're feeling so crappy. My DH sometimes takes awhile to cool off after a fight too. Keep your head up and take the time to get your thoughts together so that when he's ready to talk you can be calm and collected to talk things through.
((big squeezy hugs))
Everyone doesn't hate you, and you aren't a horrible person!
I know things are tough right now, you guys have so much stress going on. Give yourself and your DH a break. There will be days that you will fight. And that totally sucks. But things will get better. You both have made it through a lot together!
Just remember you aren't alone! We are always here for you. ((Huge Bear Hugs))