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Did you marry the right person?

Just wondering....

My girlfriend has been acting lately like she married the wrong guy and how she "misses" her ex! WHOA! I feel bad for her & her DH. I don't think they really have problems, but it's sad to hear her say the things she does. I would be crushed if I knew my DH thought of an ex that way!! 

Re: Did you marry the right person?

  • I most definitely married the right man.  Sometimes I actually worry that I'm not good enough for him, he truly is a saint!
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  • People make poor choices all the time, so it stands to reason that some people made a poor choice in who he/she married.  Sometimes no amount of counseling can fix something like that.
  • Yeah, sadly I doubt they will work out in the long run. Their DD is a few months older then my LO. It's sad to see things from the outside. 

    My hubby is the best!! He's my best friend & I hope we are stuck together forever!!!  :)  Although he does drive me crazy at times, I love him to death!!

  • I did not marry the right person.  I will leave it at that.

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  • I married my best friend and he continues to be my best friend. We have been together 8 1/2 years and though we've had our ups and downs, but I truelly believe we were ment to be together.
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  • Yes. And I married the wrong person before too.
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  • I have never had to question whether I married the right man. We've had our issues but I've never considered leaving and I don't believe he has either. We have the right balance to keep us both happy. We bicker and have our annoyances with each other but we also make each other genuinely happy.
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  • Absolutely.  And I pray every day that I can say the same thing 10, 20 and 50 years from now.
  • depends on the day lol j/k

     

    yes I did !!! :)

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  • imageHyfagal:
    I have never had to question whether I married the right man. We've had our issues but I've never considered leaving and I don't believe he has either. We have the right balance to keep us both happy. We bicker and have our annoyances with each other but we also make each other genuinely happy.

    Pretty much this, plus he's an AMAZING father.  I fell in love with him all over again when I saw how amazing he was with our little girl.

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  • imageneece28:

    I did not marry the right person.  I will leave it at that.

    Unfortunately, ditto.

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  • I think I married a wonderful person, he's a great provider and excellent father, however there are times that I think there could be someone else out there that has more in common with me, or maybe who is a better fit for me, I have changed a lot in the 7 years that we have been together.

    That being said, I'm not unhappy in my marriage, but I do think it could be better in some areas. I have to remind myself just how wonderful my husband is and I'm lucky to have him in my life, but that doesn't mean that I don't wonder.

    I am best friends with my long time boyfriend, we were BFF's in high school and dated off and on through college, until he finally came out of the closet after college that he was gay. If he had been straight there is no doubt in my mind that I would not have married him, I know deep down that he is my soul mate, the support that I don't get from DH I get from him, he's my gay husband!

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  • imageEllaHella:
    My 10 year wedding anniversary was last week.  I am more certain now than ever that I married my lobster.

    I have to laugh at this because my friends and I (before anyone was married) always used to talk about finding our lobster.

    Most days I believe I married mine!  But it's not w/o it's up and downs.  

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  • Nop, that is why we divorced...
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  • Without a doubt. He's my best friend and even though I know I loved a few other guys in my past not one of them compares to my DH. Not even close.
  • Yes!  Married going on 7 years and together a total of 17 years.  We have grown up together and experienced the best and worst of life together.  He's my best friend and I can't imagine life without him :)  
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  • yes with out a doubt
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  • Nope and that's why I divorced him. Turning into an uncontrollable alcoholic who is never home, never takes care of his child and begins to beat his wife after only 4 months of marriage? Yeah, he was definitely the wrong one.

    I knew it from the beginning but I had that stupid woman mentality of "saving him" and making him the person I knew he COULD be. I know he could never be that person. He's a horrible sick person and needs a lot of help before any woman could have a future with him.

    And I can see where your friend is coming from. I am honest enough with myself to know I am still in love with my ex. I always will be but I don't think that relationship could ever work either. But the feelings will always be there and I wish he had been "the one".

  • No doubt in my mind we will be together forever.
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  • honestly i think you might just be judging your friend.  you say her and her husband don't have problems, just that she's "acting like" she'd rather be with her ex because she misses him.  people can marry the right person, be totally in love with them, have a happy marriage and still miss their ex. 
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