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Test results - 12 weeks later

emizeremizer member
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I've been calling my OB's office once or twice a week since the 6 week mark when they said we would get the results from the chromosomal analysis. At 8 weeks out my dr. called and said there had been a mistake and they didn't have enough fetal tissue to do the full test. They would do "part" of the test only. This basically devastated me because I realized that they blew the only shot of testing my baby and I wanted an answer and I don't want 1/2 a test, I want the full test! So I called today to check the results of whatever test they were doing and I was just told that they did the whole test. Normal Male.

My heart is a bit broken again for so many reasons. I hate that I was being jerked around by my Dr's office. I really like them but I I feel like I don't know if I can trust them. I plan on requesting all my records. I just want to get a grasp on the situation because I need things to be organized and in control and this is none of that. And lastly, a small part inside of me wanted to hear that my baby passed away for a reason. That something was wrong and somehow he was spared a miserable life. But that was the last test.... Nothing was wrong with the pregnancy, nothing was wrong with me, nothing was wrong with my son. I just lost him for no apparent reason. Crying Today sucks. Christmas sucks. I want to go to sleep and wake up 6 months ago.

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Re: Test results - 12 weeks later

  • HeatherhahHeatherhah member

    I'm so sorry you didn't get the answers you were looking for that is terrible. I second the going back 6 months and that christmas does in fact suck very badly !! Huge hugs!!

    Heather

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  • agranagran member
    big hugs-- I thought it was almost worse to hear my daughter was perfectly healthy and normal than to lose her.  It makes no sense. 


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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    Big (((HUGS))).  I can relate.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
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  • NicoleD54NicoleD54
    I am so sorry you didn't get any answers. I wish Christmas would hurry up and be over for all of us.
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  • dandywarholdandywarhol member

    I too am sorry that your doctor's office was jerking you around.  Sounds like they need to get on the same page before they share information with you.

     

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  • lovemymaddylovemymaddy
    I'm so sorry that there are no answers for you.
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) I'm sorry you didn't get any answers.

    Jenn

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  • mrssopranomrssoprano member
    ((Hugs)) You might talk to your OB about a referral to a maternal fetal specialist. All of the tests my OB ran showed nothing, but when I went to the MFM she ran a lot more blood work and found that I had recently been exposed to Fifth's Disease/Parvovirus, and that likely caused Faith's death. It's just something to think about. It helps in some ways to get an answer, even if it's just a probable one.
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  • sandykinssandykins member
    I know exactly how you feel. We got our test results back and they revealed Nomal Male too. Nothing wrong with me, nothing wrong with him - then why did this happen? It was like a punch in the gut. It was just as hard - if not harder- than learning we lost him. I hate pretty much everything too. Want to hide under the covers all day everyday.
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