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Vent/whine just because

After the longest 2 weeks of my life, I was all ready (emotionally and physically) to meet with the genetic counselor today and do the u/s and possibly amnio to get 100% answers after our NT scan results came back abnormal.

Well, the office called this morning and informed me that they are sorry but they calculated wrong and I can't do the follow up testing today - we need to reschedule. I know it was just a mistake, and it is what it is. If it's not time to do it them I can't do it. I get that. I was just so ready to be done with it, you know? It has been a stressful couple of weeks and now I'm going to have to wait probably 2 more.

 Ugh. Okay, I'm done.  

Re: Vent/whine just because

  • I am so sorry.  I would be so disappointed.  I know what you mean- you get mentally prepared to face it and then you are told to wait.  How disappointing.
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  • Waiting is the hardest part.  Try to not think about the what ifs... you will have plenty of time to face it when it becomes reality.  I regret all the weeks I worried and wasn't just happy to be pregnant!!


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  • imageagran:
    Waiting is the hardest part.  Try to not think about the what ifs... you will have plenty of time to face it when it becomes reality.  I regret all the weeks I worried and wasn't just happy to be pregnant!!

    You're totally right. I needed to hear this. I was hoping this would be it and I could finally stop worrying, but I lost perspective too.  I hate stressing about things that aren't real - its one of my worst habits.

    Thanks for the reminder :) 

  • imagekellenickle:

    imageagran:
    Waiting is the hardest part.  Try to not think about the what ifs... you will have plenty of time to face it when it becomes reality.  I regret all the weeks I worried and wasn't just happy to be pregnant!!

    You're totally right. I needed to hear this. I was hoping this would be it and I could finally stop worrying, but I lost perspective too.  I hate stressing about things that aren't real - its one of my worst habits.

    Thanks for the reminder :) 

    This is also the philosophy that I'm trying to go by right now. That being said, I would totally be upset if I were in your predicament. I am so sorry you have to wait and I hope the holidays are a good distraction!

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