TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

***lavril & yuengling***

Ok cycle budies, what's happenin'?

I was super hopeful yesterday, but not at all today.  I think it has something to do with my good friend telling me she's 8 weeks.  I am very happy for her, and not as jealous as I thought (but still some).  Deep down I knew it was coming soon. Anyway, I'm thinking it's not happening this cycle because I'd love to be right behind her, and my life is never quite like I'd like. Sad 

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My beautiful Ella/ToT arrived 10/10/12. 

Re: ***lavril & yuengling***

  • P.S. lavril, your chart is already looking pretty Wink
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    My beautiful Ella/ToT arrived 10/10/12. 
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  • Just keeping on keeping on. Your chart looks pretty good though - maybe early implantion dip? I'm a pee-pusher though so I should warn you.

    I'm crossing everything for you that you're right behind her! Sorry for the jealousy, I know how much that sucks. I'm currently avoiding DH's deadbeat cousin who's KU with her 2nd less than a year after she gave birth to #1. Oh, and no job, no steady bf, etc. Life isn't fair.

    FF says to test on 12/26 but I'll probably give in on Christmas. Also, our EDD would be 9/1/12.

  • Uhg on the cousin.  Why is life so unfair?! Waaaa!  Ok, big girl panties back on.

    I'm a pee pusher too.  So much so I almost allowed myself to POAS this am.  Yea, I only stopped myself because I knew I couldn't handle the inevitable (sp?) disappointment.  6DPO, what am I, stupid?  I usually allow myself at 11DPO, but I'm testing a day early because my first RE appt is on Tuesday, and I want to know if I'm pg before I walk in the door.

    Do you usually have a long LP, or what's up with the late testing date?  I think one  of the things FF does poorly is testing dates.  It should base it on your O for this month and just be set for the end of your LP.  Instead it does an average of all your cycle lengths.  That's dumb.  Especially for those of us with losses or a few longer than normal cycles. 

    The 9/1 thing is cool to me for some reason, but I don't know why?! 

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    My beautiful Ella/ToT arrived 10/10/12. 
  • imagemork:

    Uhg on the cousin.  Why is life so unfair?! Waaaa!  Ok, big girl panties back on.

    I'm a pee pusher too.  So much so I almost allowed myself to POAS this am.  Yea, I only stopped myself because I knew I couldn't handle the inevitable (sp?) disappointment.  6DPO, what am I, stupid?  I usually allow myself at 11DPO, but I'm testing a day early because my first RE appt is on Tuesday, and I want to know if I'm pg before I walk in the door.

    Do you usually have a long LP, or what's up with the late testing date?  I think one  of the things FF does poorly is testing dates.  It should base it on your O for this month and just be set for the end of your LP.  Instead it does an average of all your cycle lengths.  That's dumb.  Especially for those of us with losses or a few longer than normal cycles. 

    The 9/1 thing is cool to me for some reason, but I don't know why?! 

    Wondfos are the ultimate pee-pusher.. at $0.15 each it's hard to not pee on them! GL on Tuesday! I'm hoping you get to walk in the RE already PG!

    I think FF gave me a late test date because I've had some awkward LP ranging from 11-16 days.

    I really might wait it out this time just because I've gotten a little ridiculous with the "if I tilt it this way and squint and stand on my head while eating a banana, is this a line?" crazycakes. Although AF on Christmas morning is not the present I want, so who knows what I'll end up doing.  

  • Lol. You crack me up!  I totally get that!

    I'm torn about testing on Christmas day, it could either be super awesome, or craptastic.  I'm not sure if I'll pee push you guys or not! Hrm... 

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    My beautiful Ella/ToT arrived 10/10/12. 
  • Hi ladies!!!  Sorry for the delayed response!  I'm doing okay on my end - cautiously optimistic.  I had an awesome, beautiful chart last month and a big ugly BFN so I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much.  This cycle I'm doing clomid/hcg trigger w/ TI.  B/c of the hcg trigger (last Friday and Wed - so day before O and then 4dpo) - I would falsely test + now.  My RE said it could take up to 14 days to get out of my system, but last time it took about 10 days.  Because of all that, I don't plan to test until 14 or 15 dpo. 

    I was thinking the same thing about Christmas as you Mork - could be awesome or depressing!  I will prob test that night (I know I know - not FMU) that way it won't ruin my whole day.  I'm going in for betas on the 26th if I haven't started by then. 

    Yuengling - I love your description of searching for that elusive 2nd line.  I am always doing that too - tilting it, squinting, checking it in different lighting in other rooms (b/c that obviously impacts the results, LOL)

    Hopefully we all get an awesome Christmas gift this year!!!!!!!!

    I'm sorry about the jealously issues - I have problems with that too.  It just sucks to see people have what you want so bad.

    PGAL/PAL welcome
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    Trying to start our family since 2010
    BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
    BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
    My Ovulation Chart
    3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
    Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
    "Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." ~Gandhi
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    Hi ladies!!!  Sorry for the delayed response!  I'm doing okay on my end - cautiously optimistic.  I had an awesome, beautiful chart last month and a big ugly BFN so I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much.  This cycle I'm doing clomid/hcg trigger w/ TI.  B/c of the hcg trigger (last Friday and Wed - so day before O and then 4dpo) - I would falsely test + now.  My RE said it could take up to 14 days to get out of my system, but last time it took about 10 days.  Because of all that, I don't plan to test until 14 or 15 dpo. 

    I was thinking the same thing about Christmas as you Mork - could be awesome or depressing!  I will prob test that night (I know I know - not FMU) that way it won't ruin my whole day.  I'm going in for betas on the 26th if I haven't started by then. 

    Yuengling - I love your description of searching for that elusive 2nd line.  I am always doing that too - tilting it, squinting, checking it in different lighting in other rooms (b/c that obviously impacts the results, LOL)

    Hopefully we all get an awesome Christmas gift this year!!!!!!!!

    I'm sorry about the jealously issues - I have problems with that too.  It just sucks to see people have what you want so bad.

    That sucks about the wait due to the trigger shots.  Then again, that keeps you from testing too early!  I could probably use a reason not to.  I had the urge again this morning, but I peed real quick so I wouldn't have any FMU to use.

    I think the whole pretty chart thing is deceiving.  It seems the pg charts aren't as triphasic as FF would lead us to believe.

    Let's go little awesome Christmas gifts! 

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    My beautiful Ella/ToT arrived 10/10/12. 
  • True about it keeping me from testing too early!  I though I have to admit of testing today and yesterday just to see if the trigger was out of my system yet (which it's not).  I really don't want a false positive when its really testing time!

    How are you all feeling?  Cramps or any other symptoms?  I noticed a lot of cramps yesterday and today but could be MF or AF symptoms too! 

    Also, I forgot to mention a EDD of 9/1 would be awesome b/c my birthday is 8/31 Big Smile

    FX for Christmas BFPs!!

    PGAL/PAL welcome
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    Trying to start our family since 2010
    BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
    BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
    My Ovulation Chart
    3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
    Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
    "Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." ~Gandhi
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