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Thanks ladies

vanessagorcvanessagorc member
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I've been reading ur msgs all day...

All of u have said how so so sorry u are.

What really means so much, is that i know u really mean it.  I have no idea how we got here, and why miracles don't happen for some of us...but I'm so grateful for the support.

I'll prob stop crying tomorrow and start to figure out what next, but not today.

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  • jessagerjessager member
    you take all the time you need to be sad, angry, scared, whatever.  we'll all be here to support you.
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  • Edwina.McDunnoughEdwina.McDunnough
    HUGS and I Rx you vino and Vision Quest.
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  • cookie_queencookie_queen

    Take all the time you need to process this.

    I recommend lots of bad Christmas movies on lifetime, hallmark, and abc family. With wine, lots of wine. And cookies. And sweatpants.

    TTC with severe MFI since 9/08 IVF w/ ICSI #1 May/June 2010= BFP twins
    Callan George and Bennett Charles born and died 11/7/10
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    FET #1 April 2011= BFN
    FET #2 July 2011= no transfer because my lining sucked
    FET #3 February 2012= BFP! 1st beta 9dp5dt=314 2nd beta 11dp5dt=977 1st U/S 3/20 Twins- Heart rates of 111 and 138 Pregnancy Ticker
    Living After Losing
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  • Ginger71Ginger71 member

     We're here for you, V. I know it sucks, and it's so raw right now. It's always so shocking when you get the news....especially when you are  hopped up on hormones. It hurts just for me to think about it and I'm so sorry you have to feel it. 

    (((hugs)))

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  • babystinkbreathbabystinkbreath member
    i second the wine and sweatpants.  thinking about you and sending you lots of hugs.

    ~Lauren~
    **SAIF always welcome.**
    After 2+ years, 3 losses, 3 surgeries, 2 IVFs and 1 FET our little girl is here.
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
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    Lauren (babystinkbreath)'s book recommendations, favorite quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)
    Read in 2011: 56/55
    Read in 2012: 31/30
    Read in 2013: 1/25
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  • hep01hep01
    Oh honey I am SO sorry!! I was praying so hard this was your BFP!!!! =( 
    PAIF/SAIF Always Welcome
    TTC #1 Since 3/2010 Diagnosed with POF
    6/2010-IVF #1 Cancelled after ER b/c 0 eggs recovered
    On to Donor Eggs
    9-30-10 IVF w/ DE begins & Donor started stims 10-4-10
    Donor ER 10-14-10 14 Fertilized Eggs ~ ET 10-17-10 (7 Frosties)
    IVF #1 11-18-10 M/C @ 7 Weeks~Stopped growing @ 5 Weeks
    FET #1 2-1-2011
    Beta #1 13dp3dt 2-14-2011~722
    Beta #2 15dp3dt 2-16-2011~1942
    1st U/S 3-3-2011~Twin Girls

    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
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  • smileesmilee member

    Oh, honey- I am just getting on.  I am SO, SO sorry.  

    It is just so unfair.

    Big ol hugs for you. 

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  • SweetDahliaSweetDahlia

    You should try to do something nice this weekend for yourselves. Hugs.

    PAIF and SAIF Always Welcome!
    TTC since 2007
    6 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 2 m/c :< PCOS, Blood Clotting Disorder & MFI
    IVF #2 Aug 2011 is a BFN:<
    IVF #3 March 2012 is a BFN
    Not sure what to do now. Sad and lost.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • Mayan2011Mayan2011 member

    I have been thinking about you all day.  I feel awful for you.  You are right not to think about what is next today - even tomorrow might be too soon.  Give yourself some time.

    ((hugs))

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  • steveandkim2steveandkim2 member
    I'm so sorry...I'm just getting online tonight and so sad to see your update.  Take all the time you need and know there are so many of us thinking of you!
    TTC since April 2009 dx = PCOS; TTC History for DS - A FET miracle after 7 IUIs; 2 fresh transfers, and 1 other FET resulted in BFNs. Hoping and Praying for baby #2: Cycle 1 - FET; November 2012 BFN Next Steps - who knows? Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
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  • thewormstheworms member

    ((HUGS))

    tonite (and for as long as you need) you get wine, bad movies, cupcakes and guac

    and you always get our <3 and support and friendship

    <3

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    Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
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  • meg_koolemeg_koole
    Crying and drinking is definitely acceptable and expected.  I am just so p*ssed for you.  Just proves that life is not fair...
    Our Blog - http://thedittemores.blogspot.com/
    Dx PCOS 2003/high fasting insulin/clotting issues DH Dx with low sperm count, motility and morphology. Varicocele repair (11/1/2010)
    2/2011 - Confirmed no improvement - On to Donor Sperm
    4 failed IUIs in 2010
    IUI#5 and 6- with DS, BFN
    Final IUI - Lucky #7! IUI with DS - 20.Jun.2011 - 21.5 mil motile! Not so lucky - BFFN and the end of our IF journey....
    Waiting for our family to be complete through Adoption - May 2012 - Hoping our baby finds us soon!
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  • vanessagorcvanessagorc member

    imagemeg_koole:
    Crying and drinking is definitely acceptable and expected.  I am just so p*ssed for you.  Just proves that life is not fair...

    No it's not...don't even get me started on that.

    Ugh...I  could hate the world.  Oh wait, i do....

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  • DeputiesWifeDeputiesWife

    We are here for you anytime. 

    Thinking of you. 

    TTC #2 since June '08

    ~*DD 10.21.07*~

    dx unexplained

    IUI #1-4 BFN

    IVF#1 June 2011 BFN

    IVF#2 Dec 2011

    Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634

    EDD 8/25

    *PAIFW/SAIFW*

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  • MrsNap_515MrsNap_515 member

    Aww V I'm so sorry, I haven't been online in a few days and was catching up, & so sad to read this.  I'm rooting for your next cycle...wishing you all the best

    **~*Noelle*~**
    Happily Wed DH in May 2010
    June 2012: DD#1 born after countless fertility cycles, our 4 year old miracle 
    TTC #2: current cycle: 225iu Menopur for 4 weeks, Ovidrel Trigger= BFP! Beta #1; 333, Beta #2 713! 1st u/s showed TWINS (7/18)
    BabyFruit Ticker

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  • amaksym05amaksym05 member
    imagetheworms:

    ((HUGS))

    tonite (and for as long as you need) you get wine, bad movies, cupcakes and guac

    and you always get our <3 and support and friendship

    <3

    Yes to all of this.. If you need someone to get sh*T-faced with I am a 20 min bus ride away!! Always here for you!!! (((HUGS))))


     
    Dx: PCOS, Anovulatory, Amenorrhea 2006
    TTC: Sept 2008
    IVF#1 Cancelled due to breast biopsy.05/01/20

    IVF#1.2- 9/2010 - Cancelled Oversurpressed

    IVF#2 Microdose Lupron 10/2010 Beta 11/09=BFN
    IVF#3 2/2011 - 2 blasts(2/25) Beta 03/11 =BFN
    IVF#4 Lupron 01/02 =2 blasts, beta's 1-4 198,234,398,3100!!BFP
    FET 3/2014 2 blasts BETA 3/20=BFP TWINS EDD 11/27 TEAM PINK!!!                   
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  • BeeBee08BeeBee08 member

    V, I am so sorry I didn't get on last night to send you my love and support.  I am so pissed right now that this is happening.  You are amazing and don't deserve this at all.  Take the time you need and know that we are always here for you.  I'm so sorry, and I definitely think you should take all the advice to drink wine, eat cupcakes, and watch the stupidest Christmas movies of all time.  ((hugs)), I'm sorry.

     
    me 33/DH 36
    ttc since 10/2008; d/x: mild MFI, stageII endo
    ~~PAIF/SAIF Welcome~~
    11 IUI’s = 1 m/c (7w4d)
    IVF#1 January 2012 BFN, FET #1 April 2012 BFN
    Surprise BFP October 2012 m/c (7w), Surprise BFP April 2013 m/c (6w4d)
    IVF #2: July 2013, ET 1 embryo 7/18, beta 1 @ 14dp3dt - 757, beta 2 @ 16dp3dt - 1762
    U/S 1 @ 6w4d = 1 little frogger with HB of 118, U/S 2 @ 7w3d measuring right on track with HB of 160
    Stick Frogger Stick! Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!   It's a Girl, EDD April 7, 2014

    BabyFruit Ticker

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  • emcaemca member
    Definitely take all the time you need!  I am so, so sad for you and I truly hope that you come to a decision that is best for you and your husband.  I am so, so sorry.  Lots of hugs!! 

    After 1 IUI, 3 IVF's with CGH/CCS testing, 10 early miscarriages, and lots of tears and frustration, we are moving on to Domestic Infant Adoption!  We are so excited to see what the future holds.

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  • Delta04Delta04 member
    Know that we are here for you.  My heart goes out to you.
    TTC since 3/07. IVF#1 = canceled. IVF#2 = 0% fertilization. IVF#3 = BFN. IVF#4 = c/p.  
    Moving forward with Adoption 2017!
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  • TripplebTrippleb member

    Didn't get a chance to respond to your earlier message, but I have been thinking of you.  So sorry this didn't work out. Huge hugs V.

    TTC #1 since 9/07
    Dx MFI, AMA, Endo, AMH .16
    Lap 10/09 Removed endometrioma, stage IV endo and adhesions
    Lap 2/10 Endometrioma cysts & adhesions returned.
    Ivf #1 4/10 Antagonist, ET Cancelled.
    IVF #2 2/11 A/ACP+E2V C/P
    IVF #3 6/11 Letrozole/Antagonist BFN
    IVF #4 11/11 Low stim Antagonist BFN
    Lap 3/12 Lap & Selective HSG
    Many cycles of Letrozole and LP HCG w/TI and LDN
    IVF #5 8/12 Low stim BFN
    IUI #1 10/12 BFN br> S&PAIFW
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  • MBfromBMCMBfromBMC
    (((huge hugs))) and T&Ps coming your way...
    imageimageimage

    TTC since March 2009 // Me and DH - 28
    Testing Summer/Fall 2010 - Unexplained IF
    IUIs #1-4 ~ Clomid/Ovidrel/TI/IUI ~ all BFNs
    IUI #5 ~ Femara/Ovidrel/TI/IUI ~ BFN
    IUIs #6-9 ~ Research Study Meds/Pregnyl/TI/IUI ~ all BFNs
    IVF Consultation, More Testing
    Diagnostic Cycle ~ Mucinex/Progesterone/TI ~ BFN
    IVF #1 ~ Menopur/Bravelle/Ganirelix/Novarel/Progesterone/Lupron
    7R, 6F // 2 transferred // 3 frosties ~ BFN
    FET #1 ~ Estrace/PIO/Lupron
    3 thawed // 2 transferred // 1 lost // no more frosties ~ BFP!!
    Beta #1 - 456 // Beta #2 - 1176 // Beta #3 - 2933 // Beta #4 - 6753
    EDD: May 16, 2013
    Threatened MC at 6w2d
    Bedrest for SCH // 6w2d through 10w1d
    Elevated TSH and Lazy Thyroid DX @ 10w - Started Synthroid
    Finally released from RE at 13w
    Charles Everett ~ Born 5/20/2013

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker


    ~~ My IF Blog ~~ 

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  • jessican08jessican08 member

    ((HUGE HUGS)) Vanessa

    TTC 12/2009
    Me: 32 - Stage II Endo / DH: 36 - Low count and morphology (1%)
    IUIs 1-3 BFN, lap Dec. 2010, IUIs 4-6 BFN
    IVF w/ICSI #1 - ER 2/8: 24R 19M 9F ET 2/13 2-5 day blasts (no frosties) = BFP - b/g twins!
    E & C Born 10/19/2012
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
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  • Sarah&royaleSarah&royale member
    Big hugs, Vanessa. I really thought this was going to be your lucky cycle.
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