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I did it again....

howleyshellhowleyshell member
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Yet again I didn't walk away from a post when I know I should have.

Will I ever learn?

Please remind me that most of us make this mistake from time to time.

I know it's pointless

I know it's pointless

I know it's pointless

 

So why do I bother going there?!?!?!

 

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  • Mrs.ReemMrs.Reem

    FWIW - I felt like the op was undermining the mom as well. That way she wrote it did make it seem that way. It could have been worded differently. I also agree that all she had to do was look up carseat specs online.

    In the end, she really made a fool of herself but now it's being overlooked because her friends came out of the woodwork to discuss the accusation instead. Most arguments are not because people disagree but because of the tone in the delivery,  ;)

    Don't worry. The next big drama will come up and nobody will ever remember. lol

     

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  • kittylovekittylove member
    I used to nanny and I have to agree with you on this one. I felt like she was trying to undermind the mom. I agree with OP that it is unlikely her boss will ever see this but it could happen that a friend on the mom is on the bump. This place is huge and just the other day I ran into a nestie/bumpie/whateverweareatthispoint whose child I recognized from the board but didn't "know" her. It does happen!
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  • browneyedgrl4282browneyedgrl4282 member
    One on earth would this girl thing is was okay to have such small kids in regular booster is beyond on me. They are not her kids, she should be doing what the parents want. I would be so freaking pissed if they were my kids and she was undermining me!
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  • KYRNKYRN

    Not so much on here, but every time my SIL and I argue I feel like this afterwards.  I keep at it on principle b/c I know I'm "right" but when I discuss with others afterward they almost always point out that no matter how much I was right, she'll never see it and I could have saved myself a lot of time and energy by just giving up the fight (not that you are doing this on the board).  I never learn, even when many people say "just xyz to shut her up", I can't when I know how wrong she is (and I've usually run the scenario past several impartial parties).

    Oh well.  I agree with Mrs. Reem she seemed to be looking down on the mom. 

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  • dundasgirldundasgirl
    I am definitely missing something!  What are you talking about???
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  • DavezWifeDavezWife member

    lol. you badarse. ;-)

    how DARE you! I'm sooooo  not ever going to work for you, het het.

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  • JessandJeremyJessandJeremy member
    imagedundasgirl:
    I am definitely missing something!  What are you talking about???
    Fill us in!
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    Can we get some deets?!
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  • alchrisalchris member

    I found the post and IMHO no doubt you were SO right.  Yikes on many levels.

    I usually do stay out of things but I would have commented on that one.... 

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  • DavezWifeDavezWife member

    ahhhhchoooopreschoolboardoooooo

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  • schmoodleschmoodle member
    imageDavezWife:

    ahhhhchoooopreschoolboardoooooo

    ...and THIS is why you're awesome D-Dubs. Among other reasons. 

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  • crystalgirlcrystalgirl
    imageschmoodle:
    imageDavezWife:

    ahhhhchoooopreschoolboardoooooo

    ...and THIS is why you're awesome D-Dubs. Among other reasons. 

    Seriously. Yes

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