DS is starting to show strong interest in reading lately. We're churning through short chapter books, he's pretending to read them to us and making up his own stories, and walking around the house with paper and pencil pretending to write. He asks us how we know what the book says, and wants to know how to spell various words. The problem is that he doesn't know the alphabet yet and is kind of resistant to learning letters.
I've never been a sit and drill my kid kind of person. If he's interested, we do things related to what he's interested in and he learns it that way. If he's uninterested, I don't bother. But, now we're kind of stuck. I think he really wants to be able to read, but he doesn't want to learn letters and sounds. Suggestions? Should we just keep going with the flow? Even letter related crafts and games are rejected.
Re: Reading readiness: what is the next step?
Would he play with an alphabet toy? DS loves his Fridge Phonics toys. His single letter one has capital letters and his triple letter one has lower case letters. (apparently, though, "styles may vary") He already knew the capital letters when we bought the triple letter one and then learned the lower case ones in maybe 3 days.
https://www.amazon.com/Fridge-Words-Magnetic-Word-Builder/dp/B0002SC7CE/ref=sr_1_2?s=toys-and-games&ie=UTF8&qid=1323876928&sr=1-2
Another vote for the Leap Frog DVD's.
Once he knows letters and sounds I highly recommend the BOB books.
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I second Fridge Phonics and Super Why. DS Turned 3 in September and can read the Level 1 books of the Random House Step Into Reading series and most of the Dr. Seuss "I Can Read It All By Myself" books. He spells everything he knows and constantly asks how to spell random words. He rarely uses the Fridge Phonics base anymore since it's only three letters and he's moved on to 4 and 5 letter words.
We've been playing with alphabet and phonics flash cards for at least a year. It's so awesome listening to him sound out a word he doesn't immediately recognize.
I have to add that I get a great deal of criticism from friends, family and even strangers about him reading at this age. We never pushed it, but always encourage it. We've been told we're not letting him be "normal". I laugh. Hey, your kid likes trucks, mine likes books. Neither is wrong.