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Scheduled my RCS and way more nervous this time...

I just scheduled my RCS for 3/5... and besides being BEYOND weird for me to be picking DD's birthday, I am already anxious and super nervous.  I guess since I have so much time to think about it.  I know CS's are "safe" but I can't help but be worried about the risks of surgery and caring for DD after I come home.  How is everyone else feeling?
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Re: Scheduled my RCS and way more nervous this time...

  • I had those same feelings.  DD was born a week ago and the whole experience was great this time.  DS was an emergency c and the two were nowhere close to comparable.  It was so relaxed, and aside from the vomiting almost immediately from the anestesia, it was a piece of cake.  As soon as I got the vomiting out of the way, I felt great and was even joking around.  Recovery has been much easier too.
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  • I felt the same way, but everything went smoothly and taking care of both LOs has been a little difficult but manageable. 
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  • I am nervous too, mine is Thursday. But I had a really good experience with my first one, so I have no real reason to be nervous. It's just scary, and being awake while I know in the back of my head what's going on...ugh. I made a point with my first surgery to make sure they didn't tell me when they started, and I will definitely make that request again. I think because I have DS now, and I know it's going to be a lot more work this time around. Recovery went really well for me last time, so that's reassuring.

    I'm nervous about what a nightmare my body is going to look like, and getting that back. I'm going to have 60 lbs to lose (I got pregnant the second time about 15-20 lbs more higher than I would have liked), and that's a lot.

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  • Thank you for all your positive feedback. I also had a great experience for my first c-section so I'm not sure why all the nerves!  I think part of it is a little bit of anger that I can have a vaginal birth... but all I want is a healthy baby!
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  • 3/5 is my bday! :)

    I had a c/s with my first DD and it went very smoothly. Recovery was pretty good, especially since I made myself get up and about as soon as I was given the okay.

    Despite all of that, I'm still really nervous to have an RCS. Maybe because I know what to expect? IDK, but I'm sure it will be great. I'm just excited to meet my little love bug/ :)

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  • They haven't scheduled mine yet but it'll probably be around 2/20ish. I'm already thinking about it non stop. Last time they had to knock me out which sucked in numerous ways but at least I wasn't awake to think about them cutting stuff. This time I'm hoping for the spinal to work and to be around for the birth. That's my main anxiety...being awake for such a major surgery. Also freaking out a bit about the pain afterwords and caring for two kids while recovering. I'm sure it'll all be fine and probably way easier than I imagine but just knowing exactly what and when is happening is scary. Hoping things go great for all of us this time =) Just have to suck it up and be brave.
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