Thanks to everyone who responded! I am switching my care to Geraldine & Tracy at Fremont Midwifery and am very excited! I interviewed Geraldine and their student yesterday and it was absolutely amazing. I was instantly comfortable with her (very rare for me), and she seemed so calm yet assured while also being immensely respectful of the moms in her care. I really felt like discussing things with her that her attitude was the she advised and discussed options WITH her moms, rather than telling them what to do as the all-powerful authority figure (the latter being feeling I got from my current midwives and the other groups I interviewed). Obviously I'm hiring a midwife to be the expert, but I still want to be involved in my care, and I feel like that is much more a possibility here.
So thank you again to everyone who responded, I am so happy I interviewed them and am very hopeful this will be a better fit!
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